Totally UB

[Greysmanicfan41]

My partner brother earns double than him yet always offers to pay for pizzas, they always accept don’t even get wallet out?

Yet need new washing machine cooker - and table for kitchen!

DP has part of business in his name on deeds but actually earns nothing but co signs everything and makes decisions or chasing tenants up where as brother just easy laid back gives em nothing! Does my nut in!

Won’t ask or stand up for himself!
As he worried he lose Family see brother as best mate though only due to working shifts so when they mates meetings he can’t go!

Totally does nut in complains but won’t do anything about it!!!!

Er...

Your post doesn't make much sense Greys. Do you want to try posting again?

Yes you are, because I don't understand what you're on about.

Eh?! 🤷🏼‍♀️

So your partner is spending money he hasn't got when out with his brother, despite his brother earning more but never offering to pay.

You need a new a new cooker, washing machine and table but you can't afford it as your partner is spending all his money on socialising because he doesn't like saying no?

Only sees his brother because he works nights so can't go on meet ups with friends? And he doesn't want to upset his brother by not going out

Is that about the gist of it?

you're saying that DH Brother has plenty of money but never offers to pay for takeaway

You need appliances for the house, which you cannot afford

DP works for the family business, but doesnt earn any money, but DP Brother takes money and does no work?

Clear as mud