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Would you tell the wife or the boss??

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sissy89 · 16/10/2018 09:32

I won't go into the whole story as not to drip feed but 99.9% certain that a co worker of DH is doing cocaine on a daily basis.

This co worker is a friend of ours who we see socially and our kids go to the same school.

Would you tell his wife? I know they are not happily married and just pretty much together for the sake of the kids - this would probably be the end for them if she found out.

Would you tell his boss? He's more than likely doing it at work as he was caught our years ago and the boss gave him another chance.

Like I said, won't go into the whole story but he owes 2 separate people (dh is one of them ) over £1000 now that we know of anyway.

Until this morning, I told DH I wasn't sure I would tell anyone but then I bumped into this mans little girl at school. She's the loveliest sweetest little girl, always says hello to me and asks how I am and it broke my heart thinking about the state her daddy is in and what could be in store for her and her little brother.

What would you do?

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caroloro · 16/10/2018 16:50

Never mind boss and wife. Tell social services and the police! What if that lovely little girl accidentally ingested some cocaine!

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