To just give up

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allinmyhead12 · 16/10/2018 08:51

i just cant be bothered any more, i dont want to work or deal with the kids or please the husband!!! i just want to be in my PJ's watching crap on telly ignoring the world. Cant be arsed with the job (writing this when should be working!) just cant be bothered cant get motivated.....someone tell me to get out of this rutt and get motivated again!

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Fatasfook · 16/10/2018 08:53

Have a day off then get back on it

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allinmyhead12 · 16/10/2018 08:56

wish it was that easy

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THEsonofaBITCH · 16/10/2018 08:57

Go for a walk and clear your head/feelings then ease back into daily life.

Neshoma · 16/10/2018 09:13

I feel the same - can I join you?

Sometimes you feel everything you do is for everyone else - and with no thanks.

Please yourself today. You are tired and need some me time.

ThankyouLinus · 16/10/2018 09:18

I feel like this sometimes. The power of guilt and obligation get me up and the days are never as bad as I think they're going to be.

That being said, I know that my job is making me unhappy but I am holding out until mat leave

It sounds like you need some time to yourself. I know it's not always easy but you really need to push for it where you can. Hope you feel better soon.

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allinmyhead12 · 16/10/2018 09:43

i work in an industry that is busier through the winter, we had a quiet summer which was mentally draining with nothing to do to stimulate it so now we are hitting the busier bit i just cant be bothered! also my DH is self employed and so busy at the moment i could work for him but we need to remortgage and know that it is better for me to stay in full time employment to do that. I think i just cant get my head past the fact that i could be working from home and able to keep on top of all the house and help out the DH so we can all have more time together. I have got most of half term off so maybe i will feel better after that, fingers crossed.

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