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To think he might be sexist/misogynistic?

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MissBanner · 10/10/2018 23:36

I’m beginning to think a guy I have been seeing might be a bit sexist/misogynistic. A few examples:

  1. He showed me a picture of a girl his friend had tried to set him up with. She was quite dolled up and wearing a low-cut, tight dress - obviously about to go out for the night. He said, “She doesn’t look my type - don’t know where she’s been”.
  1. Said his ex-wife felt left out of his life because he was so devoted to his job and said “I think it would have been better if we had had a child as she would have had something to do”. (She also had a job Hmm )
  1. Says he doesn’t like women swearing.
  1. Said when he divorced it was hard living on his own as he’d never had to do any cleaning or cooking or anything.

What do you think? Am I being over-sensitive or are these red flags?

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UpstartCrow · 11/10/2018 18:59

The door slamming thing. He didn't warn you that the door is heavy and might slam. he didn't ask you to watch the door. He let you be caught out so he could put you in the wrong.

You are worth so much more than this.

FetchezLaVache · 11/10/2018 19:00

Dump him, he's a paternalistic wanker and you know he is. What is it that you think you owe him?

Lweji · 11/10/2018 19:01

How is his personality and treatment of you not repulse you?
What's so attractive about him?

Or are you desperate for male attention?

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