I know prob unreasonable and but doesn’t make any sense so need different
DP asked about a airport 95.00?after a 15 hour very busy Saturday night, so will of done 19 hours, if plane arrives in on time at 4am! We discussed it and agreed it not worth it, and after a Saturday night shift DP will be exhausted! Sundays are our time as he is a taxi driver! Does other work when not driving so DP and I had agreed Sunday afternoon and Mondays together! This meant I had to rearrange to meet this and make sure I don’t book other arrangements!
DP has now decided against what we agreed and I feel disrespected at change of agreement! And as a couple we discuss things for a reason if it effects our time together!
DP compromise is taken Tuesday Am off to off load Sunday DP will be asleep, but hasn’t considered I have plans and won’t drop them just cause DP went and took a job we agreed he wouldn’t, it’s worry DP driving 19-20 hours anyway when DP only does 12 hour shifts, and told his firm, he can only hack 12 hours as they wanted him to stay on longer sometimes!
If he take Tuesday morning off DP would have airport 55.00 and get on average 50.00 so makes 105! Where as airport is 85.00 but won’t cancel airport Sunday morning, it’s not about being skint or cash! And has presumed I be ok to see DP on Tuesday morning without any consideration on my plans.
I think it’s self fish.
It just doesn’t make any sense, to me, maybe to you it does?