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AIBU?

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Do an AIBU from a movie character and see if anyone can guess who it is

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GunpowderGelatine · 09/10/2018 21:42

I'll start.

AIBU to be pissed off with my recluse sister?

My sister is an introvert to the point where she won't even speak to me anymore. We live together but I literally don't see her from one day to the next and TBH I'd like a bit of company. Also it's bloody cold in our house, especially walking past DSis room, anyone got any recommendations for portable heaters? Preferably from John Lewis.

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JellieEllie · 10/10/2018 00:11

@AngeloMysterioso Labyrinth

willstarttomorrow · 10/10/2018 00:21

@pollaidh Call me by Your Name?

Aintnothingbutaheartache · 10/10/2018 00:22

Thank you urban!

willstarttomorrow · 10/10/2018 00:23

I always thought I did not really fit in. Turns out I am adopted and a whole load of people do not believe in Santa!

IamPickleRick · 10/10/2018 00:24

AngeloMysterioso, I can’t actually give him back, he was quite badly injured when I threw him 20ft in the air. Got a bit excited during that song, I just love that one.

Anyway, just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave.

(How weird that we both posted that at the same time, from each other’s perspective Shock)

WickedLazy · 10/10/2018 00:26

@Room101isWhereIUsedtoLive

What was yours?

PawneeParksDept · 10/10/2018 00:31

Everyone were I live thinks I'm weird because I like to read and I am persistently sexually harassed by this one guy who won't take no for an answer. Then, my father got kidnapped and I agreed to switch places. It's far nicer here than anticipated but now I hear creepy guy is trying to have my father sectioned. Would I be unreasonable to upset my kidnapper by leaving?

PawneeParksDept · 10/10/2018 00:32

@Urbanbeetler yours is The Shipping News

Aintnothingbutaheartache · 10/10/2018 00:33

I’m a singer and usually tour with jazz bands, I also play the ukulele . I have a string of unsuccessful relationships behind me.
Do I go out with the bass player?

PawneeParksDept · 10/10/2018 00:35

My parents are so weird, my Mom is uptight and forced us to listen to classical music at dinner, my Dad is having some kind of midlife and when he isn't sleazing on my friend he's getting stoned in the garage.

WIBU to just run away with the boy next door who has a Mom who's practically catatonic and an abusive Dad.

TheDarkPassenger · 10/10/2018 00:36

Aibu, I recently woke from a pretty good long sleep.. naturally I was quite hungry so went looking for food. Unfortunately I have to move around via the sewers as I have quite a unique look and fashion sense so it seems best to stay hidden. Managed to find something to eat but was still hungry (as would you if you’d slept that long!!) Anyway, I come across some food I would really like so I changed my appearance a couple of times to try to obtain this food in an easier way but there’s a group of children in the town and they are just being really horrid to me! They keep saying they’re going to kill me but I just want to eat! It’s not fair! Aibu? What am I supposed to do???

PawneeParksDept · 10/10/2018 00:37

Were we being unreasonable to tell our friend she couldn't sit with us?

I mean, she was wearing SWEATPANTS

TheDarkPassenger · 10/10/2018 00:37

Pawnee is yours American beauty?

PawneeParksDept · 10/10/2018 00:38

Yes, one of them is!

TheDarkPassenger · 10/10/2018 00:39

Ahhh yes, the second one YABVU.. how mean

PawneeParksDept · 10/10/2018 00:40

My Dad really wants me to go to Oxford but I'm too busy being in love with a dashing older man so I lied to my Dad and told him I'd met CS Lewis

What could possibly go wrong?

Aintnothingbutaheartache · 10/10/2018 00:41

It

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 10/10/2018 00:42

Some arrogant, immensely powerful people, to whom I'm very distantly related, stole something that belonged to my wide extended family many, many years ago. It wasn't an expensive or beautiful thing - think your GGGGGGGGGGGU Jake's battered but solid old armchair - but of enormous sentimental value to us. It felt like a part of our family history and, I know I might sound like a drama llama, but I felt that it even represented a mahoosively important part of our identity. They had connections and seemed to have everybody in awe of them and could apparently do no wrong. They'd already taken so many of our other precious heirlooms from us, so this was our little attempt at sticking two fingers up at them! symbolically taking back our freedom.

Maybe IABU, as their ancestors originally stole it from OUR ancestors centuries ago. I know, I know: nine tenths of the law, let bygones and all that. But a few of my uni mates and I got talking about it one night after we'd had a few and decided that we should just drive down there and take it right back. After all, it was rightly our property. It wasn't just for us, but for everybody to whom it meant so much.

I admit we probably shouldn't have broken into their big old family chapel or been in a position where we might have seriously hurt a police officer in self-defence, but I can't say I'm not proud of what we did.

We grabbed it and somehow managed to haul it to our trusty old car - I don't know exactly how as it weighed a ton! Unfortunately, we accidentally broke it, but it was a hazard of the job.

Well, they were not happy about it when it was discovered and they raised the alarm, but we managed to evade them and got it back to home territory. I'm a bit ashamed to say that we ended up getting cold feet and abandoning it in a field, but it was one of OUR fields, so we considered it a win!

They eventually found it and took it back, as we'd known all along that they probably would, but we'd made our point and our mark in history! With hindsight, maybe a few sturdy penguin bollards might have helped to make things more difficult for them.

So as not to drip-feed, our family has had a love-hate relationship with this other family for far longer than anybody can remember. The whole extended family got together a few years ago to decide whether we should just go LC and LTB once and for all. It was a very close-run thing, but just over half of us insisted that we should stay amicable with them. Our family elders keep assuring us that they're doing their best under the circumstances, but we can't help wondering if they're just floundering about like fish out of water.

butterfly56 · 10/10/2018 00:45

@pawneeParksDept

American Beauty

PawneeParksDept · 10/10/2018 00:46

Ok so my Dad is mad at me because I sweet talked him into lending me money which was then used to fund a backstreet abortion for a girl my sisters creepy boyfriend got pregnant - I think he has no right to be mad at me. Parents are so out of touch!

safariboot · 10/10/2018 00:48

@TheDarkPassenger It?

AIBU to be pissed off with my colleagues for abandoning me when I got injured at the office?

We had a storm and I got knocked out by flying debris. When I came round I found my colleagues had just jumped on the flight and LEFT ME! Our office is in the middle of nowhere by the way, we have to live there overnight. I had to patch up my injuries myself which really fucking hurt and then wait MONTHS before I could get another flight back home.

AIBU to want to hurl all my colleagues into the Sun?

willstarttomorrow · 10/10/2018 00:59

I am an A+ student supporing myself through college with a job in a hardware store. A stunning man came in to buy some duct tape and by some coincidence it happens that he is a multi billionare with a penchant for BSDM. Despite living a sheltered life and being a virgin I have somehow hooked up with this man. He manages to make me orgasm just by looking at me and we have unplausible movie sex. AIBU to peruse a relationship? Outside the bedroom our relationship consists of stilted dialogue, absoulutley no sexual chemistry and bizarre and non plausible life threatening/kidnap situations. So not to drip feed, he had a tough childhood and has given me a huge rock. WWYD? Also despite only ever writing for my college paper I am now Editor of a massive magazine so I have a career.

GunpowderGelatine · 10/10/2018 01:00

@Paintingtheroseswhite it was actually Frozen but now you say it they're quite similar Shock

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GunpowderGelatine · 10/10/2018 01:11

We don't have a lot of money, I'm a working Mum to 1 but I also care for both mine and DH's parents and we live hand to mouth. I work really hard and never get a break, not even for a minute. DS recently won a competition for a once in a lifetime day out - I'm so happy for him, we're so poor we'd never be able to afford a trip like this. Anyway, when he asked who wanted to go with him (he needs an accompanying adult) my bloody dad, supposedly bedridden, sprung out of bed with the vigour of a 19 year old and literally started skipping about declaring that he'd be the one to accompany DS on the trip. AIBU or is my dad a cheeky fucker, making me wait on him day in day out for years on end, knowing I have a job, DS and 3 other elderly relatives to care for - when he could move about all along?

Also, my parents and in laws all share a bed which I find really fucking creepy

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MipMipMip · 10/10/2018 01:15

Me Raine Margot? (No idea how you spell it!)

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