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AIBU?

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Original poster

I sent DH to the sofa & found out he actually enjoys & been laughing about it with his mates!!!

91 replies

FrustratedDP · 07/10/2018 16:56

I’m fuming tbh

Turns out he been taking the piss vlogging the ‘Experience’ to his mates as if he in Bear Grylls the island.

The cheeky fuck made a point of not eating & slyly had a takeaway delivered!!!

OP posts:
Original poster
FrustratedDP · 07/10/2018 17:56

I went through his phone to find the vlogs.

The problem is the childcare & the upset it will cause

OP posts:
Original poster
FrustratedDP · 07/10/2018 17:56

FallenIvy

No I’m not was here a few weeks ago

OP posts:
Omzlas · 07/10/2018 17:57

Your only unreasonableness is that his arse is anywhere near your sofa

Kick it out, followed by his clothes

He can vlog away to his hearts content from the comfort of his mate's sofa. Makes me wonder if his mates know why he's been sent to the sofa Hmm

Cheddarsmedders · 07/10/2018 17:58

fallenivy doesn’t sound humorous

frustrateddp can you confirm? If people know this thread is not humorous then they can offer you real support

Notacluewhatthisis · 07/10/2018 18:00

When you say emotional affair, what exactly has he done?

FallenIvy · 07/10/2018 18:03

No I’m not was here a few weeks ago

Yes you were and not many people took that thread seriously either.

MrsStrowman · 07/10/2018 18:03

What exactly has he done, I've seen posters on MN say smiling at a mum in the school playground, and chatting about a mutual shared interest while waiting for the DCs is an emotional affair.

MrsStrowman · 07/10/2018 18:04

Also is there a link to the vlog

lovetherisingsun · 07/10/2018 18:06

Why will childcare "cause upset"?

BoneyBackJefferson · 07/10/2018 18:18

Cheddarsmedders

Its funny because the OP posted nothing other than 'i'm treating my DP like a five year old'

Then massive drip feed.

Then the same BS that is posted about kicking someone out of their home, which you are not legally allowed to do.

Oh and an emotional affair at an after school club where there is very little time to do anything let alone have an emotional affair.

And the 'I snooped on his phone'.

Its almost AIBU board bingo

icannotthinkofauser · 07/10/2018 18:26

he had an emotional affair, OP sent him to sleep on the sofa from now on and her DH has been sending videos to his mates like it's a laugh and joking about it.

OP he sounds like a massive arse

Cheddarsmedders · 07/10/2018 18:39

Oh and an emotional affair at an after school club where there is very little time to do anything let alone have an emotional affair.

Seriously? Would you mind letting us all know exactly where affairs can be/are undertaken?

I don’t think it was a drip feed - the post was re the OPs DP taking the piss. The next post specified the reason for sending him to the sofa, as asked by other PP

BoneyBackJefferson · 07/10/2018 21:34

Cheddarsmedders

It was a drip feed, it could easily have been put in to the op.

As for where emotional affairs could take place, I didn't realise that opinions had to be run by you before they could be posted. Maybe you should have MNHQ put a sticky at the top of all threads with your preferred details so that only posts vetted by you can be put on the site.

Havaina · 07/10/2018 21:47

OP, your posts are too vague. I think you're trying to be tantalising but it's just annoying.

Your DH is having an emotional affair but you appear to be posting about him for laughs.

Cheddarsmedders · 07/10/2018 21:50

jeffers

Have you enjoyed mocking and dismissing someone who came on here for help because you deign that they’ve “dripfed” and affairs don’t happen at afterschool club? Hmm

BlessYour2Sizes2SmallHeart · 07/10/2018 21:50

Much like cheap tat from party gift bags and couples who give their wedding guests a photo of themselves, he sounds like a prize not worth keeping.

busybarbara · 07/10/2018 21:57

"An emotional affair at an after school club" lol. What's he doing.. actually talking to other women and being nice and actually making friends with another parent? Seriously, at a public club what could be possibly be doing that's actually wrong, playing footsie under the table? I bet a penny to a pound he's just made a friend and been naively talking about it a bit too much when he gets home.

BoneyBackJefferson · 07/10/2018 22:01

Cheddarsmedders

Alpacanorange · 07/10/2018 22:06

Yabu for sending him to the wrong sofa.
Kick the dick out.

GunpowderGelatine · 07/10/2018 22:07

I agree with others, unless he is running the after school club with someone else I'm not sure how you have an emotional affair at pick up time

Cheddarsmedders · 07/10/2018 22:09

jeffers

Apology accepted. When one addresses their failings they can become a better person.

I forgive you.

Deadbudgie · 07/10/2018 22:12

Emotional affair???? Normally equates to being really good friends with someone opposite sex. Tbh he’s probably lost the plot at being sent to sit on the naughty step

BoneyBackJefferson · 07/10/2018 22:12

Chedders

Good to know, Now we just have to address your issues

AlphaBravo · 07/10/2018 22:13

How was his affair emotional OP? Basically he was mates with another woman, right? That's it.

5foot5 · 07/10/2018 22:24

FallenIvy Have to admit that at the start of this thread I also thought "Oh Sharon's back" however having read further I think it probably is serious.