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I sent DH to the sofa & found out he actually enjoys & been laughing about it with his mates!!!

91 replies

FrustratedDP · 07/10/2018 16:56

I’m fuming tbh

Turns out he been taking the piss vlogging the ‘Experience’ to his mates as if he in Bear Grylls the island.

The cheeky fuck made a point of not eating & slyly had a takeaway delivered!!!

OP posts:
redwineandcrisps · 07/10/2018 17:21

Okay, well with your update, absolutely chuck him out. His lack of respect for your hurt / reaction is worse than the emotional affair in my opinion.

Notacluewhatthisis · 07/10/2018 17:24

To be honest, I kind of don't like the 'get out of our bed, go get on the sofa and think about what you have done'.

You didn't want him in your bed, so he left. You can't then control what he does then

If he isn't sorry then you need to ltb. What exactly has he done?

Not sure people would be accepting of a man who forced his wife out of the bed.

pinkyredrose · 07/10/2018 17:24

Chuck him out of the house so he can have a full on outbound experience.

BoneyBackJefferson · 07/10/2018 17:24

DaphneFanshaw
What is this madness?

I sent DH to the sofa & found out he actually enjoys & been laughing about it with his mates!!!
Riversleep · 07/10/2018 17:26

So he was having an emotional affair with someone from your childs after school club, you found out and kicked him out of bed and hes laughing about it with his mates? He couldnt give a fuck about you or your marriage. He's told all his mates about what a fool he has made out of you and he's ordered a takeaway just to rub in how little he cares. Sounds like he's checked out of the relationship. Kick him out and see how many of his mates want to take him in.

BoneyBackJefferson · 07/10/2018 17:27

DaphneFanshaw
What is this madness?

ichifanny · 07/10/2018 17:28

Ok so he’s laughing at you being upset about him having an affair , I’d kick him out the house and let him have a laugh about that . Dick .

HollowTalk · 07/10/2018 17:29

Given that caveat, I'd kick him out and let him vlog about that to his heart's content.

ButchyRestingFace · 07/10/2018 17:30

It’s not the definition of “emotional affair” that ppl need help with, OP. Wink

OurMiracle1106 · 07/10/2018 17:31

Because I smirked I am now sending myself to the sofa via the kitchen treat cupboard.

Grin

I’m guessing OP means when she kicks him out of bed onto the sofa but still.

OurMiracle1106 · 07/10/2018 17:33

Sorry OP having read your update. He needs to be sorry. If he isn’t LTB and don’t look back.

YeTalkShiteHen · 07/10/2018 17:37

Ok so he’s laughing at you being upset about him having an affair , I’d kick him out the house and let him have a laugh about that. Dick

This.

Redglitter · 07/10/2018 17:37

I think we're all aware of what an EA without the link to the definition Hmm

What wasn't clear from your OP was why he was on the sofa. It just sounded ridiculous until your big drip feed which totally changes things.

I'd be sending him a damn sight further than the sofa. The fact he's joking about it shows he clearly has no remorse or respect for you.

Gazelda · 07/10/2018 17:41

So he's been having an EA. Is nOw laughing with his mates at your reaction.
Get rid of him.

FallenIvy · 07/10/2018 17:43

Is this the same DH who fancied Sharon and threw wine at the wall? Grin

AllTakenSoRubbishUsername · 07/10/2018 17:45

I have no idea what this post is about.

Bobbybear10 · 07/10/2018 17:46

Well he is well and truly taking the piss out of you isn’t he. What a nasty piece of work he is.

The question is what are you going to do to show him you are worth more than that?

My suggestion would be to tell the nasty little shithead to leave through the front door and never come back! (After some form of legal revenge!)

Gileswithachainsaw · 07/10/2018 17:47

Well ignoring the fact that blog post definition kinda means I'm having an emotional affair with every single one of my friends Blush

He clearly doesn't give a shit op . Most people who care aboutbtheor partners surely would be worried about why you don't want them near you.

He doesn't take you or the relationship seriously

I'm.sorry Flowers

IVEgotthePOWER · 07/10/2018 17:48

Op you need to send him to the far side of fuck the fuck off

Cheddarsmedders · 07/10/2018 17:48

OP just found out her OP is having an affair, why are posters being cocks?

OP - his behaviour clearly shows a lack of remorse and a lack of respect. He’s actually mocking you to his friends. He sounds like a fucking bellend. LTB. He’s a cheat and a LAD

Cheddarsmedders · 07/10/2018 17:49

Also, I’m sorry Flowers

gamerchick · 07/10/2018 17:50

Ok so he’s laughing at you being upset about him having an affair , I’d kick him out the house and let him have a laugh about that . Dick

Yep pretty much this ^^

Well he is well and truly taking the piss out of you isn’t he. What a nasty piece of work he is

A bit like people on this thread, what's that all about? Hmm her blokes been investing emotionally energy into another woman and he finds his wife's upset funny.

I'm sorry OP, maybe he needs to go sleep at a friend's and blog about his hilarious experience there. Flowers

MyBrexitGoesOnHoliday · 07/10/2018 17:53

Well he has just been telling you loud and clear what he thinks of his relationship with you.

I’m sorry but he has just told you ther is no relationship anymore. Or at least not une respect is present :(:(

Please just get rid of him and let him do a vlog about how much fun it is. I dint think he will find that that funny tbh.
But he clearly think you will never do that and can take the piss from you.
Don’t let him!

tolerable · 07/10/2018 17:54

well..am not that into bear grylls.seems to me he puts himself bang in middle of shitsville then forces viewers to watch him sink to shite levels to claw his way back out. i switch it off....sorry op but hes not ticking the right boxes is he.kick him out. games are really awful when youre emotionally strained already.

FallenIvy · 07/10/2018 17:55

OP just found out her OP is having an affair, why are posters being cocks?

Because it's a humorous thread. Search for 'In regards to Sharon'. I'm pretty sure this person is the same poster.

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