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To ask you: All In or All Out?

843 replies

Quietrebel · 04/10/2018 09:54

All seems to indicate that it's now crunch time for the UK. In the style of another active thread, I'd like to ask you all what you'd go for if given a binary choice between No Deal at all with the EU or Remain.
No blame game or mud slinging, just simple polite answers please.

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Winterbella · 04/10/2018 16:54

All those intent on no deal, will you feel any different if innocent people get hurt because of it or will it not matter because its not at your back door?

FridayThirteenth · 04/10/2018 16:55

Remain.

The vote may have been Leave, but there is no mandate for No Deal and more people would be unhappy with that result than Remain.

(this is from an ICM poll)

To ask you: All In or All Out?
ethelfleda · 04/10/2018 16:56

Remain

Notonthestairs · 04/10/2018 17:03

Remain.

scaryteacher · 04/10/2018 17:04

No deal as the EU does not ever deal in good faith. Whatever you may think about the individual member states, the negotiations are being driven by by the Commission, who would rather hurt the individual member states than stick to the Articles governing Brexit and part with the UK on good terms.

PickAChew · 04/10/2018 17:06

Remain.

PostNotInHaste · 04/10/2018 17:08

Remain

Racecardriver · 04/10/2018 17:08

With a capable government all out. The EU is problematic on many fronts. I often regret moving to an EU country. Especiallu after the events during the migrant crisis, the racism and Western supremacy within the EU is a bit of a shock after the way I was raised. With any British government of the past twenty years remain. The whole dn country has been intellectually castrated. Regardless of whether the government is tory or Labour they will cock it all up.

BabySharkAteMyHamster · 04/10/2018 17:12

Remain.

The whole thing's a farce and shouldn't go ahead since people blindly voted without researching or realising what they were voting for.

WhatYouGonnaDoKatie · 04/10/2018 17:16

Remain.
I’m trying to be hopeful that it could still happen...

Rhondacross · 04/10/2018 17:18

Remain all in

JustDanceAddict · 04/10/2018 17:18

Remain every time.

derxa · 04/10/2018 17:21

No deal as the EU does not ever deal in good faith. Whatever you may think about the individual member states, the negotiations are being driven by by the Commission, who would rather hurt the individual member states than stick to the Articles governing Brexit and part with the UK on good terms. I agree apart from the leave part. The EU have done nothing but object.

Dash38 · 04/10/2018 17:21

Remain

SlowlyShrinking · 04/10/2018 17:22

Remain

mrsmuddlepies · 04/10/2018 17:25

Remain. Campaigning in the hope that someone in the government is listening to the people.

TeddyIsaHe · 04/10/2018 17:27

Remain, with every fibre of my being.

The only way out of this mess I can see is the People’s Vote gaining traction next month and giving us all an opportunity to vote for how/should we leave.

MickHucknallspinkpancakes · 04/10/2018 17:27

Remain

GreeboIsMySpiritAnimal · 04/10/2018 17:28

Remain.

But what I'd actually like is for the remainers to be given EU citizenship and to all bugger off and leave the No Deal to manage alone.

TeddyIsaHe · 04/10/2018 17:28

It’s already October (sleep-deprived) so it’s this month!

BakedBeans47 · 04/10/2018 17:29

Remain

Cattenberg · 04/10/2018 17:29

Remain. It would be wonderful if this unnecessary crisis could be averted.

kaytee87 · 04/10/2018 17:31

Remain. For a lot reasons but most pressing for me is that it's given the SNP a reason for another Scottish Indyref and I really don't want that.

WhatdoImean · 04/10/2018 17:35

Remain.... totally. I want my daughter to be able to live, work and travel in the EU without risk of being told "Sorry - times up, move back home"

Upsy1981 · 04/10/2018 17:41

Remain. Without a shadow of doubt.