To feel anxious about going back to work?!?

[Bumblebee321]

I have been lucky enough to have been able to have 3 years off from work after my son was born. I’m starting a new job tomorrow and I’m feeling so anxious to the point where I’m feeling sick. I’m just so worried I won’t be up to speed. Surely after 3 year I will have gaps in my knowledge. I’m just so worried I’m not going to be able to do my job properly. Working mums please tell me how you found going back to work?

Please try not to worry. I am sure there will be a settling in period. No one will expect you to know everything. I spent six weeks in a new job (big step up) pretending I was totally cool and confident but freaking out inside because of the added responsibility etc. But then it clicked and I started to get it all and feel part of the company, make friends and I never looked back. Don’t put pressure on yourself and be warm and nice to your new colleagues so you can go to them for help. Am sure you will feel really good about it all in no time. Good luck!