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Your cf of the day story please.

242 replies

Aprilshowersnowastorm · 24/09/2018 15:15

Just got into my car to do the school run-(not parked right outside) , glanced at my front door and see a man standing there, stared at him while he put out his cigarette in the ashtray my ds keeps tucked beside a plant pot!! Then he walked off!!
Speechless tbh!!
Who has been your cf today?

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goodlordwhathappened · 26/09/2018 14:56

@MulticolourMophead yep!!! And as an update she just mentioned it in the wedding group WhatsApp so she does think it's happening!!! I replied saying I didn't think it would work as DH works from home and November-December is a busy period for him. She said (brace yourself) 'is there no where he could stay? LIKE A HOTEL?' 😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐😐 I'm actually in shock

lisasimpsonssaxophone · 26/09/2018 15:05

I work somewhere where I can give certain ‘perks’ to friends and family. A friend asked me if I could do her a favour and help out another friend of hers (who I’ve never met) with said perks. I said yes, of course, just tell her to come in when I’m working and I’ll take care of it. I let her know exactly which days and hours I work.

Friend-of-friend has turned out to be something of a CF who seems to expect me to come in on my day off so that I can do her this ‘favour’ at her convenience. I keep repeating that I’m happy to do it if she shows up while I’m at work but she is just not getting it!

RevRichardWayneGaryWayne · 26/09/2018 15:19

@lisasimpsonssaxophone If that were me I think I'd be telling them that the company is getting stricter on perks, and you'll no longer be able to help.

Idontevencareanymore · 26/09/2018 19:07

I lent my ex bf the money to buy his gf, now wife, her engagement ring. He's never paid me back the money and has the opinion of "it owe him becauseI left him and had money"
the guy is such a waster and even 18 years later hasn't worked more than 6 months ever....

I've so many cf stories about him and his entitlement id be here all day.

Havaina · 26/09/2018 20:12

idont why would you lend your ex money to buy his gf an engagement ring?

NoLightInTheTunnel · 26/09/2018 20:21

idont why would you lend your ex money to buy his gf an engagement ring?

I agree - that's just asking for trouble Hmm. I wouldn't lend my ex a loo roll!

Shrekless · 26/09/2018 20:37

Neighbour from across the way knocked on me and asked if I would take her friend to the shop.. we live in a rural (ish) village but the shop is only about a 10 minute walk away.. Anyway I wasn't busy (and taken by surprise) so I said yes. Took him to the shop. He comes out with a crate of larger!! This was at about 1pm too Confused
I was used for a beer run Grin didn't even get a can..

Shrekless · 26/09/2018 20:38

drive her friend to the shop.. obviously didn't walk there with him Grin

Lunde · 26/09/2018 22:09

Today I went to an international food market where accessibility is tricky - many of the roads and normal parking places are closed off to make way for the market. Blue Badge parking is especially difficult. In one car park a CF had parked deliberately bang in the middle of the only 2 BB places - straddling the white line separating them. This was despite other spaces being available. She sat in the car without a BB. DH managed to maneuver in to one space where there was just enough space to fully open door and get my walker alongside (missing her door by about 2mm). All the time she just sat there and glared at us ...

But any other BB holders were out of luck Angry

ShirleyPhallus · 26/09/2018 22:17

Lunde

Why didn’t you ask her to move?

Shrekless

What was wrong with that? Or should the neighbour have explained what they needed and only then would you have decided the journey was necessary?

Lunde · 26/09/2018 22:24

Why didn’t you ask her to move?

Being disabled makes you feel very vulnerable and too scared to confront people. Although earlier this summer DH confronted a biker who did the same thing

Fiffyshadesofgreymatter · 26/09/2018 22:30

@Lunde

You should know better than to lump all disabled people into the ' too scared to speak out' category. Many are and many are not.

Being disabled makes you, personally, too scared to confront. But it's not the same for all disabled people so don't paint them all the same.

You shouldn't need to confront people; no one should act in such a selfish way toward you so you did nothing wrong by not engaging with that woman. But I know a while load of disabled people who'd have given her a telling.

rosablue · 26/09/2018 22:45

Had a tumble dryer delivered today. Was in a bad mood as it was supposed to be delivered yesterday lunchtime - they waited until almost 6 o'clock to text me to say that the van had broken down and they wouldn't be delivering it but had rescheduled for today at the same time.

Lunchtime - it arrives. I had paid extra for them to remove the old one and install the new one. I opened the back door - it wasn't possible to get the new one in until they took the old one out, they were grumpy that I hadn't taken it outside for them - I had unplugged it as instructed, but the whole point of paying for installation and delivery is that they move the ruddy thing.

They then brought the new one in, plugged it in and pushed it in without taking the protective sticker off the top, so I stop them and make them take if off. Then I point out that it wobbles - apparently that is the fault of my uneven floor. So I point out that there are little adjustable feet on the bottom of it precisely to deal with this situation, so they grudgingly have a fiddle with both feet, make it worse and then say I need to find something to wedge it with, having pointed out that it now didn't wobble if I pulled it half way out of where it is (and in a narrow utility room, that means you can't open the door properly or get past, completely unacceptable).

So again, I point out that as they have fiddled with both feet if they wind the one up that is too tall and wind the other one down, it should improve the situation, which they did with incredibly bad grace and eventually get it level. Didn't take them long, but needed me behind the machine, one of them tilting it and one to fiddle the feet so not something I wanted to do myself - particularly as this is exactly why I had paid for the service.

one of the delivery guys then gets me to sign the delivery note - without wanting me to read it. So I cross through it and write not checked across it as it was all about accepting a perfect delivery and them not being liable if anything was wrong - they didn't give me time to do that so don't see why I should sign my rights away. I then proceeded to do the same on the next two delivery notes they needed - again no time to read properly. Half way through the second one, the guy realises what I'm doing, says not to and gives me another one - so of course I write not checked on that too, pointing out that I am not going to agree to conditions that he isn't giving me time to read or action. By the end we are both seriously hacked off. I get that he has targets but if they are happy to sell an installation service, then they need to expect their staff to install things properly.

I also discovered that the truck yesterday broke down in the morning, before 10am so was then doubly pissed off that they had waited so long to cancel that delivery when they must have known it wasn't going to happen.

Will be complaining tomorrow when I am awake and can be more factual, less angry!

Warpdrive · 26/09/2018 23:09

My SIL used to regularly have a kid over one night a week after school until 6:30pm. She was helping his mum out because she had to work late these days. The kid ate LOTS and used to even critique her cooking (CF?). This was a favour, she wasn’t paid or gifted anything for helping out.
Twice, I bumped into this kid’s mother while shopping in the village, couldn’t help myself but say, “Your DS is with my SIL right now, you’re supposed to be working!”
Each time she just laughed it off...CF!!!

RevRichardWayneGaryWayne · 27/09/2018 11:53

@rosablue

I had something similar - I was supposed to have a shed delivered and they didn't turn up - eventually I called them to be told one of the first deliveries was refused in the morning - so as that was in the way none of the other deliveries could take place. Asked why I wasn't told and got the response "Well do you you expect us to call everyone with deliveries on the lorry?"
I replied "Yes, that's exactly what I expect!"

They rearranged the delivery for the next afternoon - popped out in the morning got home at about 11am to find it unceremoniously dumped in the front garden!

crispysausagerolls · 27/09/2018 21:30

Beanmummy

Did you return the poop?!

cranberryx · 28/09/2018 20:11

I have one, but it's from last month!

On the way back from Disneyland Paris, Eurostar was delayed by two hours.
Get back to Kings Cross and we are all queued up at passport control. I am heavily pregnant, DS (2 yo) and DP all waiting in line.

A man in a suit comes up behind and hits DS with his briefcase as he tries to get through. Gradually the man assimilates himself with our family as the queue is not moving. I move DS and calmly say to the man,

"Excuse me, it looks like you're trying to push in front of us."

He replies: "That's because I am." Shock
His tone was somewhat rude and I was hormonal and tired so just replied.

"Oh. So you're an arsehole then?" Hmm
And calmly arranged myself in front of him again.

At this point he splutters, goes red and explains that he needs to get the taxi that is waiting outside of the station. And that he is "very sorry." He gives me a cheeky, cap in hand smile and I just laughed and refused to move.

When he tried to go around again, an older woman behind him told him that he needed to wait like everyone else!

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