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To not go on a date with him because of this?

19 replies

noluckinlove · 22/09/2018 15:53

So I got talking to a guy,seemed to get on well.
He then threw in that when he is alone he likes to smoke pot..
Then today he was asking if I had any bad habits ..I said I'm a bit of a clean freak etc
Then I asked him ...he replied he kind of sucks his thumb.
I actually think he was being serious ..
Is this what's left out there ?
Because if it is I give up.

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Fraula · 22/09/2018 15:54

I know grown women who do this. I don't think it's a problem at all, but you'd have to actually like the person to find it endearing or just quirky I suppose!

waxy1 · 22/09/2018 15:54

As long as he doesn’t suck his thumb on the date.

Alpacanorange · 22/09/2018 16:06

I would have to ask myself, there must be someone better than a thumb sucking pot smoker.

steff13 · 22/09/2018 16:08

Well, I don't like smoking of any kind, and I find adult thumb-sucking very off-putting, so it would be a no from me.

RaininSummer · 22/09/2018 16:10

The thumb sucking is vile.

Chickychoccyegg · 22/09/2018 16:12

I wouldn't go out with a thumb sucking pot smoker, I find both gross

Sethis · 22/09/2018 16:14

Could be worse. He could pick his nose and flick it at the ceiling.

Then again, he might do that too. Ask him about it.

DonnaDarko · 22/09/2018 16:16

I'm not bothered about the pot, but the thumb sucking is a major turn off

EmmaC78 · 22/09/2018 16:16

The smoking pot would make it a no for me.

noluckinlove · 22/09/2018 16:30

It's a no from me.

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Cheeseplantandpickle · 22/09/2018 16:33

YANBU

HollowTalk · 22/09/2018 16:35

I would have to ask myself, there must be someone better than a thumb sucking pot smoker.

It's what you dream about as a child, isn't it? "One day my prince will come... with his spliff and his thumb firmly in his mouth."

MrsMelonBall · 22/09/2018 16:36

I thought you were saying you didn't want to date him because of the pot- but then I read on... what the? 😂 Stay strong there's got to be better out there!

noluckinlove · 22/09/2018 16:56

Your replies so funny
I hear Disney are in talks for a new movie plot

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waxy1 · 22/09/2018 17:58

Snow White thought 7-Up was a fizzy drink until she discovered cannabis.

MaggieSimpsonsPacifier · 22/09/2018 18:03

Waxy - isn’t there an old (clearly bollocks!) theory that Snow White is basically about Walt Disney and cocaine? So Snow White, obviously, then Happy, Sneezy, Grumpy etc.... i’m sure I read that somewhere!!

waxy1 · 22/09/2018 18:09

And Dopey and Doc!

AamdC · 22/09/2018 21:20

Alpaca and Hollow😂😂 and this is what he tells ypu before you go on a date?? Imagine what other charming little habits he has😱

trojanpony · 23/09/2018 01:31

NoooooooooooooooOoooooOOooooo!

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