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Stepdaughter unconscious through alcohol - A&E?

105 replies

LittleLionMansMummy · 16/09/2018 00:52

Posting here looking for quick advice please. Dh got called by dsd's friend at midnight saying she was in no fit state to go into town (they'd been preloading vodka). The taxi wouldn't take her. Dh went to collect her, she couldn't stand up and hasn't been conscious since he put her in the car. She's home now (I.e. here, but she lives with her mum), is breathing, he's laid her on her side and is sitting with her. He's not going to leave her, but should he be getting her to hospital? Looked up alcoholic poisoning but it's not clear if what we've done is sufficient or she needs to be in hospital.

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YouTheCat · 16/09/2018 00:54

Is she responsive? I'd phone for advice.

LittleLionMansMummy · 16/09/2018 00:54

No, he's trying to wake her.

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Smellybean · 16/09/2018 00:55

I definitely would. Can you wake her up at all ?

RonniePickering · 16/09/2018 00:55

Any response at all, is she murmuring if you lightly shake her?

SplatRat · 16/09/2018 00:55

A&E if she's unresponsive!

FoxFoxSierra · 16/09/2018 00:56

I would call 111 but if she is unresponsive when he's trying to wake her they will most likely send an ambulance

GloGirl · 16/09/2018 00:57

Call 999 and ask for advice

If she doesn't need an ambulance they won't send one.

LucyDontLockIt · 16/09/2018 00:57

A&E - vodka might not be all she's been taking

Snappedandfarted2018 · 16/09/2018 00:58

Take her up and please contact her mum!

Bambamber · 16/09/2018 00:59

If she's not responsive she needs to be seen. I know it sounds horrible but try pinching her

LucyDontLockIt · 16/09/2018 01:01

Plus, waking up in A&E surrounded by pissed off nurses might be the wake up call she needs to stay off the booze. It would be embarrassing and quite frightening. Might make her think twice in future.

SortingTheDrawers · 16/09/2018 01:02

I would be trying very hard to wake her, if no response then call an ambulance

LittleLionMansMummy · 16/09/2018 01:04

Ok, dh has tried waking her, and has made sure she's warm (she's wearing next to nothing!) She's not opening her eyes or moving much in response to dh, but she is lightly squeezing his hand. So I think she's just conscious. He's going to call 111.

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Harrypotterfan1604 · 16/09/2018 01:09

I’m a nurse, you need to us a painful stimuli to see if she responds to pain. Pinch the
Muscle between her shoulder and her neck, if no response then she has to go to the hospital without a doubt. How old is she ?

LittleLionMansMummy · 16/09/2018 01:09

She's 18.

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SheGotBetteDavisEyes · 16/09/2018 01:10

She hasn't been conscious for over an hour? Get her to A&E. I would be very concerned that she's taken something else.

ohreallyohreallyoh · 16/09/2018 01:18

Please make sure her mum is informed if she needs to go to hospital. Give mum a chance to be there for her,

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alphajuliet123 · 16/09/2018 01:19

Tell her very loudly you're taking her to hospital and see if she reacts to that. Also call her friend and ask her how much drink (or whatever) she's had because the hospital will want to know. If nothing else it will be a lesson learnt for the pair of them. Hope she's ok.

LittleLionMansMummy · 16/09/2018 01:22

She's woken up enough to murmer a few things and have a sip of water. 111 advised to stay with her, so dh will sit up with her and make sure she stays on her side. He's messaged her mum to say she's in a state but he's looking after her. I'm pretty certain she's not taken anything else - her friend's mum said she'd been necking neat vodka from the bottle.

Less worried now she's moved/ spoken. Dh will be having stern words with her tomorrow I think.

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QuestionableMouse · 16/09/2018 01:22

I think an ambulance would be a good idea.

ThistleAmore · 16/09/2018 01:25

her friend's mum said she'd been necking neat vodka from the bottle.

I'm going to assume (hope) that that's one mate, and their mum, who has been blacklisted.

FastWindow · 16/09/2018 01:26

Just make sure she is not on her back. Pain stimulus is top of ear, not mid shoulder. And call 111. Please.

Pressuredrip · 16/09/2018 01:28

You are recieving some harsh replies here. It's gone 1am and she's drunk. Not really unusual she's sleeping heavily.

LittleLionMansMummy · 16/09/2018 01:30

ThistleAmore she's 18 - I don't think we have much say in who she chooses as friends. Her friend is younger, was sober, and had the presence of mind to call her dad on her behalf. To be fair, I don't think the fault lies with them. Her drinking is a concern.

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