AIBU to expect partner to be nice to me when I'm sick & pregnant?

[Chalkybee]

AIBU to expect my partner not to. Be a class a knob to me because I have a migraine (&pregnant) him having to look after the kids is clearly a massive inconvenience to him & his job searching and he's made sure I am fully aware of that and has zero sympathy for me and blames me on causing the migraine myself. I'd just like a little emotional support from him and he seems utterly incapable. Why is expecting him to be nice to me so much to ask?

YWNBU to expect him to be nice to you even if you weren’t sick and pregnant. Is he always such an arse? Or is he just doing it now because your being ill is forcing him to do some actual childcare when he doesn’t usually? Either way he’s a dick.

Of course he should be nice to you when you are pregnant and sick. Even if your not pregnant he should care if you're not well. I get migraines which means I can be out of it all day if it's a bad one. DH gets me what I need and let's me rest. He won't let me do anything until I'm feeling better.