Ok I’ll keep it short.
DH works freelance, shortish contracts. Each contract is paid on an hourly basis,
Every single contract is he works a day rate, overtime is the hourly rate added on for every hour of overtime.
DH is working 7 days per week. He is paid for those. DH should leave work at 5pm every day except Friday which he works until 11ish.
Every few nights, he strolls in between 7&8pm. His travel home is 25ish minutes from work.
he hasn’t bothered putting in for extra hours. Always has before.
He works until 11pm on a Friday night, but tonight he strolls in at 7pm, and he tells me he’s working till midnight tomorrow.
He refuses to accept that it seems very strange he’s doing all this overtime, for no financial gain at all.
I’m not accusing him, but I have said that’s the kind of dodgy shit that rings alarm bells of men having affairs... he’s offended at this notion.
Please, someone tell me- am I mental thinking this?!
I just don’t see it as believable, he isn’t even putting his extra hours on his invoices which he’s always done elsewhere.
It’s just set my spider senses tingling.