AIBU to think some people get a really bloody shit deal and that it’s just not fair!

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A gorgeous family in our village have lost husband/dad in his early/mid forties.
It was his funeral today and they are still trying to do lovely things for other people. Being kind and thoughtful no matter how crap they’re feeling.
I honestly don’t know how they keep going. DP has been friends with the dad /husband for almost 2 decades and they’ve always been so kind.

I can’t think of anyone who deserves this shit less than them. Their DD is only a teen, and DIL and DS are expecting their first D.C. anytime soon.
I know there’s know answer but why is life so bloody unfair?

Sorry no not know

It is an absolute bastard..

I hope your friends family achieve peace etc.

We lost my dad in his 30’s of an extremely rare cancer. No one deserves it really, nice or not, but it is very upsetting when it’s a family you know well. Sorry to hear this OP.

Thanks both - sorry for the moan. It was a very emotional day and DP was so heartbroken I just needed to get a bit out.
Spoken to the DD today and they’re bearing up as well as anyone could expect.
Hope you’ve both had a lovely day.