My mother has just told me that "maybe I should stay in bed tomorrow". She knows that I have a day off and have no plans. Today I have been feeling upset and worried about a situation (partly to do with her) and she has seen me as tired and emotional. Hence the suggestion to rest tomorrow. This feels condescending and passive aggressive to me, given that I am an adult and am perfectly entitled to feel upset, but apparently it was meant kindly and for my benefit. Who is being unreasonable?