I really object to the narrative that everyone works hard. A minimum wage job is so so so unlikely to have the same demands as a 6 figure job in terms of workload, responsibility, skills, experience. And to say otherwise is just self-indulgent crap.
Darjeel so true.
Many (not all, before someone jumps down my throat) people who don't earn a high wage don't understand what it is like to not ever be able to switch off from work, when on holiday, in the evenings (I used to dream about work deadlines when asleep), just year after year of stress weighs you down.
All minimum wage jobs I did, I clocked off at the end of the day and didn't give it a second thought.
Up thread there was someone talking about working hard and taking months to earn £5.5k, then said they worked 30 hours a week.
30 hours a week is part time so hardly surprising!
With regards to the OP, Yanbu. I find it very frustrating that because my dh is a higher tax band earner we literally get nothing, no child benefit, no childcare vouchers, no 30 hours free childcare. Yet our taxes pay for pretty much everyone else to get those things.
Because of our tax system it's not worth me going back to work with 2 preschool children, but it certainly would be for someone earning the same as I did but who's husband earned less (so got the 30 hours, paid for childcare from pretax income etc).
You can say that household income is fair as the burden of childcare costs should be spread across both salaries but my dh earns what he earns regardless of what I do so why would anyone go back to work to only just break even when all costs are accounted for.