To find TTC exhausting!

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Been TTC for 3 years, generally have a great sex life with DH. However after 3 years it's sadly becoming a chore. All I want sometimes is a quickie, but DH wants a session for an hour with lots of foreplay etc and I'm just too exhausted for that. When I've tried to talk to him about it, he'll say things like your just too good, I want to enjoy you etc. I'm not sure how to manage it with out hurting his feelings. He has a very high sex drive and generally a much nicer person when his needs are being met. However busy lifestyle on top of TTC is taking its toll on me ! AIBU that every time doesn't need to be a big event! HELP

Haha! Basically you have to make sure that there's no chance you can be pregnant before they start all the treatment... it's a couple of years since my last ivf and I can't remember the exact time, but there is a good couple of weeks where for absolutely legitimate reasons you can say "not tonight darling!"

@SpookyMuldersMum of course it's consensual. Don't be utterly ridiculous.

We fell pregnant the month before infertility treatment was meant to start. Did it once my fertile window, Conceive Plus straight after and legs in the air for 20 mins. It was our last ditch attempt and it worked!

You’re not meant to enjoy “the ceremony”

@PurpleFlower1983 wow ! I'm hoping that will be us, I've never heard of conceive plus. And right now I'll try anything !

Don't you put conceive plus in first? I was about to buy some but I don't even know if I'm ovulating yet (Still having tests and cycle is all over the place, just finished a course of provera).