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Would you be okay with 15 year old boy singing a romantic song with 12 year old daughter?

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sharws · 02/09/2018 20:59

Hi there,

My daughter is 12 and part of a musical theatre group (rather small) she has been picked to sing a song with a boy who is 15, it's a romantic song, obviously implying they're together, I know it's just acting, but still.

Would you be okay with this?

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PurpleMac · 02/09/2018 21:00

Yes

Sirzy · 02/09/2018 21:00

It’s acting why would it be a problem?

ThePricklySheep · 02/09/2018 21:01

Yes, is there more to it?

FASH84 · 02/09/2018 21:01

It's not real, of course it's fine

Septembermummy1 · 02/09/2018 21:01

It probably is just for the show, I would be fine with it. If your worried talk to your DD and just casually ask her if there's anything more to it.

Crunched · 02/09/2018 21:01

Perfectly fine and normal

sharws · 02/09/2018 21:01

No there isn't any more to it Grin clearly I'm thinking far far too much into it. I don't know. Just needed some clarification on others thoughts.

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Whatififall · 02/09/2018 21:02

Yes, it’s part of the show.

If you don’t think DD should be doing it then she shouldn’t be doing any acting or musical theatre.

Returnofthesmileybar · 02/09/2018 21:02

Of course Confused

funinthesun18 · 02/09/2018 21:03

Yes I would be ok with it. What is there not be ok with?

sharws · 02/09/2018 21:03

I was just surprised at the way they chose. Seems a bit of an age gap really. He's like a young man and her a child. She's only been doing this 4 months so it's all new to me. Thanks for opening my eyes :)

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MrsTerryPratchett · 02/09/2018 21:05

We did Romeo and Juliet and school at that age. Sex and death!

EvaHarknessRose · 02/09/2018 21:06

I think if its going to look cringy or sound inappropriate you should speak up! Otherwise fine.

funinthesun18 · 02/09/2018 21:12

They might think her vocals sound more grown up and mature Smile

dancinfeet · 02/09/2018 21:17

It would depend on how they both looked when side by side/on stage together - if she looks a very young 10 and he is very mature it may come across as a bit cringy or awkward. Or if she has a very young / little girly sounding voice.
If they match fairly well then I would have no problem with it.

dancinfeet · 02/09/2018 21:17

apologies, just seen that she is 12, not 10

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