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My DS, university/ job/ career....

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Periperisauce · 29/08/2018 09:25

For the last 3 months DS has been working in an office for a local company - basic junior admin stuff. Completing spreadsheet, typing up notes. He's been asked to do a few extra tasks too but it's all quite simple.

At first he quite liked it when it was all new. But now he's really bored. There's no prospects either, no natural way of advancing his career. The more senior people have worked there for 20 years plus, then it's loads of juniors. So no career path.

He said if he stays for a year, 5, he feels he will be in the same position. He's a very upbeat person normally, things don't upset him, he is always glass is half full. But currently he's really quite down. It's most unlike him.

We've talked about applying for another job. However he's not sure he enjoys the office environment. This is his first office job, he previously worked in customer facing roles in a bar/ restaurant which he enjoyed more but was never a long term plan.

When he was in 6th form he thought about teaching (and did some teaching practice in school) but the school directed him down the path of accountancy- he applied for a few degree apprenticeships but wasn't successful and took the bar job...He's not sure accountancy is for him though it was more the schools idea. And it's still office work which doesn't appeal.

I've asked about other careers, he really isn't a physical type so manual trades don't appeal.

He's going to speak to a family friend who is a teacher about his options and see what he can do. I don't know if he can try and get a place through clearing or if he will need to wait and apply next year but at least he can look into it.

This seems sensible to me, but my DP was quite dismissive of it and said he needs to stick to it, he's being ridiculous saying there are no prospects, and so on. So is DS being unreasonable in this?

OP posts:
Fairenuff · 29/08/2018 21:42

Also bear in mind that most TAs will be taken on a temporary contract which may not be renewed but it sounds as if that wouldn't really matter to your ds if he just wants a temporary post anyway.

FlamboyantPotato · 29/08/2018 22:01

OP I worked for a charity last year that provided National Citizens Service (NCS, for 15-17 year olds) in the North West. We outsourced the sports skill element to a company called Let Me Play. It involves teaching sports skills to young people, and looking on their website it's nationwide and they have a variety of entry routes, not just providing services to NCS www.letmeplay.co.uk/careers/

I'm afraid I haven't looked closely enough to know if he'd qualify, but if he is sporty and wanting to go into teaching, it could be something to look at? Even if LMP aren't suitable, I'm sure there's other similar organisations out there he could look at. Half of the battle can be knowing what to search for :-)

19lottie82 · 29/08/2018 22:02

What about some kind of youth worker, or similar? He could always try doing some volunteering to see what he enjoys doing. It may even lead to a job in the field., and once you’re in the door there are loads of opportunities to gain qualifications (or so I’m lead to believe).

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