To ask you what was the moment you finally decided to divorce/detach/go NC from a narcissist?

[twoblackdogs]

I have read many threads about narcissists and their unreasonable behaviour. For many, there has been a breaking point, a moment when they finally decided that too much is too much (and many still hope and hold on). What was it for you? That breaking point when you finally understood and didn't want to take it anymore?

When I realised she had been playing me like a puppet for 25 years, and when court action was threatened. That was it.

When i asked why he was putting me down and saying mean things and the response I got was 'fuck off you nasty cow'

It was a minor event in the grand scheme but I'd just had enough and I wasn't going to take any more of it.