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To ask you to share your stories of revenge on ex husbands/partners?

122 replies

WhatDaveSaid · 27/08/2018 16:32

Share away!

OP posts:
TheSpottedZebra · 27/08/2018 16:37

Deadline approaching?

LakieLady · 27/08/2018 16:44

A man I was absolutely besotted with dumped me because he didn't
"want to be in a relationship". I was devastated.

A couple of weeks later, my best mate asked me if I'd mind if she went out with him, and I told her too fucking right I would.

A few days after that, I had to go to work very early and, due to road works, took a detour that took me past best mate's flat. His (very distinctive) car was parked outside at 6.30 am, he lived several miles away.

I pulled over a little way up the road, feeling sick and heartbroken. I wanted to go and smash his car to bits but had no tools in the car, just some paintbrushes I'd bought on the way home the night before...

and a bottle of brake fluid, because of a slow leak in the master cylinder.

I painted the word "cunt" in brake fluid, in foot high letters on the expansive, immaculate boot lid of his beloved, late 70's, Audi 100S coupe.

Neither of them ever mentioned it, although it's fair to say I did my damnedest to avoid them over the next few years.

Alpacanorange · 27/08/2018 16:46

I got on with living my life.

RabbitsAreTasty · 27/08/2018 16:47

Boyfriend wanted me to spend every free minute with him. I left him. Moved away. Am having a great life. Never saw him again. Best revenge ever.

Lonecatwithkitten · 27/08/2018 16:48

I am happy, meet someone new made a better life than the one we had. All roughly at the same time as his life took a downward spiral.
The best revenge is to be happy.

Bluelady · 27/08/2018 16:51

I loved that story a few years ago about the woman who distributed her cheating husband's vintage wine all round the village. I think she cut all his clothes up too.

Nothing tops the brake fluid story, though. That's comedy gold.

Hertha · 27/08/2018 16:56

Signed him up for a daily mail subscription, now everyone thinks he’s a racist moron who enjoys lazy journalism.

Inebriatededna · 27/08/2018 17:01

An ex partner I’d lived with for almost a year before he moved out without even telling me , I had a hunch and checked on the dating app we had met on and sure enough there he was . I knew his log in details as he used the same for everything so logged on and he was giving women the spiel I’d fallen for so I copied his conversations and sent them to each other, I’d like to think it was to save them from getting hurt but may have made his profile more honest too so definitely revenge .

gendercritter · 27/08/2018 17:03

I am living as happy a life as I possibly can and looking to the future instead of the past.

Anything else is a waste of one's energy.

Needsleepneedsleep · 27/08/2018 17:04

Not me but a close friend used her spare key to her cheating boyfriend's flat while he was away seeing his long distance girlfriend, and sprinkled fishing maggots everywhere. Needless to say when he came home from his 'holiday' there were flies EVERYWHERE Grin

flowerythorns · 27/08/2018 17:05

Smells of eau du journo in here

MadameGazelleIsMyHomegirl · 27/08/2018 17:07

Placed his favourite designer jumper right next to the hamster cage. Hamster chewed tiny little holes all thru it 😂

stevie69 · 27/08/2018 17:08

I am living as happy a life as I possibly can and looking to the future instead of the past
Anything else is a waste of one's energy.

Have nobody who's caused me enough pain to even contemplate revenge but I'd like to think that I'd carry on and leave them to it. Revenge and me? Not great bed partners, I don't think Blush

SemperIdem · 27/08/2018 17:10

Living your life well without them should be revenge enough.

Criminal damage etc isn’t revenge, it’s just ridiculous behaviour that will ultimately cause you more bother than them.

Aprilshowersinaugust · 27/08/2018 17:12

My exh had a flash RR
He hasn't now.
That's all I am saying.

And it was not insured.

TallSlutNoPantiesthe2nd · 27/08/2018 17:14

Signed him up for a daily mail subscription, now everyone thinks he’s a racist moron who enjoys lazy journalism.

GrinGrinGrin

thegardenfairy · 27/08/2018 17:18

I did the old prawns in the curtain linings. I have no idea if it worked but I guess it did as ex swiftly moved house. He inheritated his sisters house and moved in.. I hope the prawns made his house difficult to sell tbh. Wanker!!

LemonRedwood · 27/08/2018 17:19

@Hertha

Grin
LemonRedwood · 27/08/2018 17:20

Why haven't you shared yours OP?

FromNowOn · 27/08/2018 17:21

Are you going to share OP.....?

MiggledyHiggins · 27/08/2018 17:22

You first...

RaptorInaPorkPieHat · 27/08/2018 17:23

Debbie? is that you?

DGRossetti · 27/08/2018 17:25

debby ?

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 27/08/2018 17:26

LakieLady, That's criminal damage and nothing to be proud of.

I expect this thread will evolve from mostly reasonable to full of twats who fall over themselves to post amusing revenge anecdotes.

And yes, you sound like a bottom-feeding journo, OP.

category12 · 27/08/2018 17:26

Grin Hertha Grin