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For the love of God can adults please stop saying uni

686 replies

CressidaEgg · 23/08/2018 09:09

Let's reclaim the five syllable word. University. It grates to read MNers talking about their DC going off to "uni" or even about their own time at "uni". Just call it what it is: university.

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Topseyt · 24/08/2018 02:59

Uni is a perfectly good abbreviation. Why get worked up about it?

Perhaps you should refer to omnibuses, telephones, mobile telephones, perambulators etc. and reclaim those too.

BertrandRussell · 24/08/2018 06:32

I lost a tiny bit of respect for Tony Benn (only a tiny bit-there's plenty left) when I heard him talking about when he went to "college" to make himself sound more man of the people.

KC225 · 24/08/2018 06:47

First time I head 'uni' was in neighbours. Nobody called it 'uni' when I went in the mid 90s.

YANBU OP. I hate 'uni'

FourPillars · 24/08/2018 07:03

Oh dear, reading this thread there truly is no hope for me.

I’m a lecturer.
In a school.
At a uni.
In Australia.

Smile
CressidaEgg · 24/08/2018 09:36

FourPillars - I allow Australians (Aussies?) to say "uni" so you can relax.

Decades ago I had an Australian boyfriend (God, he was gorgeous) and if he liked something he said it was "yot". Have any old Australians heard of that of was it as a result of all the drugs he'd taken in his early youth?

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SoyDora · 24/08/2018 09:43

FourPillars - I allow Australians (Aussies?) to say "uni" so you can relax

That’s big of you Grin

ErrolTheDragon · 24/08/2018 09:45

I lost a tiny bit of respect for Tony Benn (only a tiny bit-there's plenty left) when I heard him talking about when he went to "college" to make himself sound more man of the people.

Be fair, he did go to college, a New one at that - founded in 1379 Grin

RoseWhiteTips · 24/08/2018 09:50

ErrolTheDragon

I don't think it really qualifies as a TAAT in relation to a thread over 10 years ago. grin If you want to complain about lack of originality, try parking threads.

I take your point but still it is something that clearly eats away at some. Maybe they think “uni” is admirably suited to the sort of higher education handed out these days. T certainly lacks gravitas.

RoseWhiteTips · 24/08/2018 09:50

It certainly...

RoseWhiteTips · 24/08/2018 09:53

The experience of going to uni is hardly a privilege when so many regard it as a right.

RoseWhiteTips · 24/08/2018 09:56

If only 10% of pupils gained access, based on true ability in a rigorous system, then it would indeed be a privilege. A privilege can only be gained by the few.

FourPillars · 24/08/2018 09:58

CressidaEgg no idea what he meant with ‘yot’. Was it his version of ‘hot’? Any other Aussies here heard of ‘yot’?

RoseWhiteTips · 24/08/2018 09:59

Aussies are asleep now.

Meesh77 · 24/08/2018 10:48

I went in 1991. I never heard a single person call it ‘uni,’ except on Australian soaps. It gave me the impression that more kids down under went to university and perhaps it wasn’t the same thing.

I did a second degree in 1994 at a different university and never heard ‘uni’ there, either.

My sister was much younger than me (15 years) and she always talked about going to ‘uni’ as though it was something she might do, however she had no intention of doing any work for her GCSEs, let alone anything further. She left school with few qualifications and was unemployed for a few years, musing on whether she should go to ‘uni’ instead. She didn’t seem to link ‘uni’ with ‘entrance qualifications,’ but that didn’t surprise me, as by then, it seemed you could get into the local college (now calling itself a university) with hardly any qualifications at all, and she had friends doing just that.

Whatever the truth of the situation, from my experience, it was hard not to assume that academic ability was no longer a pre-requisite for university. It seemed to be an option available to everyone (which I support) but it seemed to lack academic rigour. Perhaps there are arguments for that, but I don’t understand them.

I remember working part time to fund my degree from 1994-98. I worked in a hospital alongside student nurses studying for their degrees. The university I attended wouldn’t host their degree course because it didn’t consider the standard high enough. One student showed me her dissertation when it was finished. Her ‘references’ section was written in red felt-tipped pen and contained the words ‘various medical textbooks.’ This was acceptable on her degree course, it would t have been acceptable in mine.

That’s just my experience.

ErrolTheDragon · 24/08/2018 11:21

A privilege can only be gained by the few.

It really is a privilege, if you consider it globally and historically. Good education should be a universal right; its only quite recently this has been recognised and it's still nothing like universal. For all the deficiencies of the U.K. education system, our children and in particular our girls still are - regrettably - in a massively privileged position. The subsection who 'go to uni for the experience' rather than to fully take advantage of the opportunity to learn might do well to consider that.

(By 'good education' I don't actually mean huge proportions should be going to university, when for a good chunk good vocational alternatives would be more appropriate, btw).

FourPillars · 24/08/2018 11:43

RoseWhiteTips it’s not even 9pm here yet, we’re not all asleep.

Are you?

BlaaBlaaBlaa · 24/08/2018 11:44

Higher education should be accessible to everyone who has the ability and potential to succeed at university. It is a privilege but not one that should just be afforded to the top 10%. Otherwise we would find ourselves operating within an elite system once again meaning swathes of very bright non-traditional students missing out.

When the government allowed private providers and FE colleges to start offering HE and then subsequently removed student number controls alongside the introduction of higher tuition fees meant that HE became a commercial market. This means there is varying quality across the sector. However, don't assume that academic standards have dropped across the board. Many,many, institutions still pride themselves on this ....entry requirements are higher than ever before ( certainly at my uni and our direct competitors) even our clearing grades were not much lower than our standard offers - to ensure academic standards don't slip.

High quality HE is still out there you just need to make sure you do you research when choosing .

toomanychilder · 24/08/2018 12:15

I went in 1991. I never heard a single person call it ‘uni,’ except on Australian soaps

and yet lots of people did, long before there were any australian soaps, even if you did not hear them.

SillySallySingsSongs · 24/08/2018 16:02

I went in 1991. I never heard a single person call it ‘uni,’ except on Australian soaps

My DSis went around that time. She certainly did hear it.

OJZJ · 24/08/2018 17:29

ShatnerswigGrinGrin

Flashinggreen · 24/08/2018 17:38

I hate uni and call it college but then I went to a London college.... I still say university in full

Lilywc · 24/08/2018 17:40

I think there are more important things to worry about, I went to UNI at the age of 56 , why should I call it University? No one else did lol

Flashinggreen · 24/08/2018 17:42

There are always more important things to worrry about than the usual chat in AIBU

2018SoFarSoGreat · 24/08/2018 17:43

I find it even stranger that it is referred to as simply school here in Trumpsville. Not uni, nor university, just school.

Odder still that this is land of the refrigerator and the automobile. These two crack me up!

hippicat · 24/08/2018 17:46

College is entirely different to university (uni) at least in the UK

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