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Movies that make you ugly cry...

451 replies

Raffles1981 · 11/08/2018 06:26

So there is a thread about TV characters and it got me thinking. So AIBU to ask what movie really makes you cry?
The Green Mile. The moment when Tom Hanks says "We love you. Can you feel that?"
Sad

OP posts:
vandrew4 · 11/08/2018 13:56

the rescue of jessica mclaure
last snows of spring

Lynne1Cat · 11/08/2018 14:09

Stella Dalla...an old black & white Barbara Stanwyck film
Ghost
Dumbo
Bambi

BanginHeadache · 11/08/2018 14:19

A Little Princess

justwanttolookgood · 11/08/2018 14:19

Bridge to Terebithia (awful spelling, sorry). After his friend dies, the teacher pulls him to the side and says something along the lines of "I was broken beyond thinkable when I lost my husband. I had the pleasure of his company for years. But you, you had her for a matter of moments. And I'm so so sorry" 😭

I don't get the beginning of Up. What's so sad about it? I know she died at the end but that's about it Blush

FizzyWizzyFlash · 11/08/2018 14:30

When daisy the dog is killed in john wick by those horrible mean men.

haverhill · 11/08/2018 14:43

When Bing-Bong sacrifices himself to save Joy in Inside Out. Lots of deep breaths taken to avoid howling in the Odeon.

daughterofanarchy · 11/08/2018 15:08

Controversial but.... “me before you” Had me ugly crying at six months pregnant. Watched it on recommendation of a younger colleague and thought “nah I won’t cry”, but how wrong I was!

daughterofanarchy · 11/08/2018 15:10

Just saw someone mentioned “the boy in the striped pyjamas”- oh my
God I want to bawl my eyes out now!!!

Confusedbeetle · 11/08/2018 15:16

"Ugly cry?" is that a real expression? I'm hearing some odd things lately. "My bad" being one

MaggieAndHopey · 11/08/2018 15:25

When Johnny Five gets the shit kicked out of him in Short Circuit 2. First watched it as a child and I was absolutely inconsolable. Similarly, there's a scene in the Misfits involving chasing down and roping wild horses that I will never be able to watch again.

Roussette · 11/08/2018 15:47

'My bad' is real american. I've got some american friends and a few years ago when we were emailing I said something gently pointing out to one of them that they'd muddled something up.. She replied with 'my bad'... I was Grin Grin

Yes to the end of Schindlers List... sob sob

Puzzledandpissedoff · 11/08/2018 15:52

Others:

A Night To Remember (the original Titanic story, not Cameron's glitz fest) ... "We'll find her sonny, we'll find your mummy"

And of course It's a Wonderful Life ... "Here's to my big brother George, the richest man in town"

WAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!! Blush

TomHardysBackpack · 11/08/2018 16:01

My Sister's Keeper
The Orphanage
The Boy in the Striped Pyjamas

shirleyschmidt · 11/08/2018 16:06

Meet Joe Black
Legends of the Fall

I'm a crier anyway, but these two stand apart for making me full-on ugly cry on every viewing. I still remember my sister, who never cries at films, coming out the cinema a sobbing wreck the first time we saw them both! 😂

Other mentions:
The Land Before Time
Blood Diamond

shirleyschmidt · 11/08/2018 16:07

Oh and A Walk to Remember. Sobbed like mad the first time but not so much on subsequent viewings.

plus3 · 11/08/2018 16:18

It is easier to list the films that don’t leave me sobbing....!

I have spent my whole life cheerfully crying my way through the slightest bit of sentimentality in films, with various of members of the family peering at me to see if ‘I’ve gone yet’

Books do it to

ZanyMobster · 11/08/2018 16:31

@phlebasconsidered Untamed Heart is my favourite ever film, I start crying long before the saddest bit as I know what's coming. I even have a signed copy of it as met Christian Slater a few times and I am such a saddo I took the DVD with me to be signed Blush

I forgot about I am Sam, I just couldn't stop full on sobbing, just something about it really got to me.

ZanyMobster · 11/08/2018 16:32

Me before You also, it was so much sadder than I was expecting, I found the whole thing devastating.

ZanyMobster · 11/08/2018 16:44

@daughterofanarchy - why is it controversial? Is that a MN issue like Love Actually that in RL everyone actually likes Grin

BeyondRadicalisationPortal · 11/08/2018 16:46

Zany, it's not just mn...
www.telegraph.co.uk/films/2016/06/03/me-before-you-debate-why-are-disabled-rights-groups-angry-about/

cloudyweewee · 11/08/2018 16:48

basically anything sad involving a dog

I didn't realise I did this until my DH pointed it out, but if we were watching a film with a dog in, I always used to say " I hope nothing bad happens to the dog."

Ghost
West Side Story

ZanyMobster · 11/08/2018 16:53

Thanks for the article, much appreciated (my comment was a bit tongue in cheek really, apologies for being flippant)

I don't agree with that article at all. The film just shows one person's feelings on being disabled to the extent they are and never suggests he would be better off dead, in fact only he feels like that, no one else in the film does. I think they portray it sensitively and brilliantly. But sorry, don't want to derail so will comment no further on that one Blush

donetodeath · 11/08/2018 16:54

Loads!! I’m not a massive crier but some films just get to me. Most have already been mentioned but particular bad ones are

The Green Mile
Forest Gump
Pay it Forward( really ugly cry!)
Dumbo
Marley and Me
Cool RunningsBlush
Impossible

There’s quite a lot really!!Grin

donetodeath · 11/08/2018 16:56

On a different note Me Before You didn’t make me cry as a film but the book absolutely floored me! I was commenting to work on the train reading it and was desperately trying not to sob in public! I think it was because I wasn’t expecting it, the film just didn’t get me in the same way, maybe because I knew what was coming or I just don’t think it was as sad as the book

ZanyMobster · 11/08/2018 16:58

donetodeath - I found the same with PS I Love You, I was expecting to be a sobbing wreck watching the film but something about it just didn't click for me, I read the book thinking it would be an easy holiday read and I was in bits.