never I agree with the divergent attitudes. My parents were just about okay, but couldn’t afford to save much - or rather they saved but that saving then paid for annual or irregular expenses rather than building up over a course of years. I know that if I want to pay for something (e.g a new to me car) it HAS to come out of my savings. I know that if I want security in my mortgage payments I have to have savings for that, etc etc.
I have always been very careful with money, saving circa 40% of my gross income from when I first got a proper job. I use 0% financing where appropriate, but generally prefer to know exactly where I stand.
I honestly can’t imagine how people earning £100k a year don’t have anything saved at all; I would feel extremely insecure, but also I just use it as a method of money management - 10% of my net income goes straight into a short term savings account which then covers car insurance, holidays etc when they come out, so that is almost always sitting at > £100 without considering other savings. I have a good job, which is in demand and am very highly qualified within my sector so would be unlikely to struggle for work, but no savings would not work for my psychologically.
I am looking at switching to longer term investments now though, as my liquid assets are back to being decent after a couple of very expensive years. However, I do think having some cash saved is important: even things I’m insured for can create cash flow problems if you don’t have any liquid funds.