To be honest I still dont understand the point about having children. As I said before I don’t have any savings. I can comfortably afford my children. I can afford £2,200 a month in childcare. I don’t understand why that makes me worse off than someone who manages to save £300 a month? You guys just aren’t making any sense.
Of course I’d like some savings but prioritise luxuries over that. If I could afford my luxuries and had some money over to save I’m sure I would, but I reckon I’m about a grand a month away from that at the moment!
Also re the paying for IVF point- I think the problem isn’t necessarily finding £8k for lots of people, it’s spending £8k on something which hasn’t such a high chance of failure, and having to spend it multiple times.