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To give my baby a name from another culture.

213 replies

BubbleMix · 02/08/2018 16:45

We are expecting our first DD in October. There is a name I really like, however everyone I have ever met with this name has come from a specific country which myself and OH have no connection to. I love the name but I don’t know if DD will have to keep explaining her name growing up. Should I go with it or pick something else?

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 02/08/2018 18:30

I hate these threads when the OP doesn't give the name! Eurgh so annoying!

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 02/08/2018 18:31

Just say the name eh?

XiCi · 02/08/2018 18:35

It's impossible to comment at all without knowing the name

BubbleMix · 02/08/2018 18:39

The name is Yara.

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GreatDuckCookery6211 · 02/08/2018 18:43

Ok. Yara. Well if you like it then go for it. Not keen personally. I love Amara though.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 02/08/2018 18:43

@RubyFlint

You beat me to it!

If the parents live in, or have strong connections with, Surrey, then Balonz (or possibly Balonzina for a girl) is completely fine (if anything, getting a bit too common there now) and absolutely nobody will think anything it - but if they live anywhere else (e.g. Slough or Bromley), it would without a doubt be considered gross cultural appropriation.

KoolAidPickle · 02/08/2018 18:43

Yara? So the "other culture" is that of Game of Thrones?

kenandbarbie · 02/08/2018 18:44

Where is Yara from? I've never heard it before?

beepbeeprichie · 02/08/2018 18:45

Yara... is that not a Game of Thrones name rather than anything else these days?

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 02/08/2018 18:45

Well, Xara and Zara are both known names, so it's a happy middle ground. It just sounds a bit like a model of a car to me, though.

needyourlovingtouch · 02/08/2018 18:46

Yara isn't a name that brings any specific countries or cultures to mind. Go for it

NotUmbongoUnchained · 02/08/2018 18:46

My Danish SiL is a Jara. Pronounced Yara. Love it.

needyourlovingtouch · 02/08/2018 18:46

Prefer Zara though

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 02/08/2018 18:47

Games of the thrones? I wouldn't choose it in that case.

BubbleMix · 02/08/2018 18:48

I’ve never seen game of thrones so I wouldn’t know. I would never think of it as another culture Confused. I’ve taught quite a few little girls from Portugal with the name.

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beepbeeprichie · 02/08/2018 18:48

It also stands for “Yet Another Ridiculous Acronym“ and is something to do with malware detection. You learn something every day! Smile

MrSpock · 02/08/2018 18:48

Yara is fine.

hungryhippie · 02/08/2018 18:49

I think it sounds lovely OP.
I dont watch Game of Thrones though so I dont associate it with that.

tillytoodles1 · 02/08/2018 18:49

A friend of a friend called her baby Arya, after a GOT character.

BubbleMix · 02/08/2018 18:49

@GreatDuckCookery I like the name Amira but then it would be the same question again.

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YeTalkShiteHen · 02/08/2018 18:51

I like Yara, it’s a pretty name.

Why wouldn’t a black girl be called Elizabeth? Or an Indian girl be Chloe? What an odd statement to make.

ShirleyPhallus · 02/08/2018 18:51

A black girl named Elizabeth?

What’s weird about that?

The poster was saying that there isn’t ANYTHING wrong with it and it wouldn’t raise eyebrows at all

GreatDuckCookery6211 · 02/08/2018 18:53

It doesn't matter OP. Call her what you want to. I just prefer Amara to Yara.

Writersblock2 · 02/08/2018 18:57

I’d be really hacked off if I had a name many people would associate with popular TV, particularly with its anti-women messages.

strawberrry · 02/08/2018 18:57

It sounds like a twist on Zara to me, i wouldn't immediately think it was a foreign name.