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Wibu not to reverse

53 replies

DannyDogg · 31/07/2018 20:03

Blue cars are parked, mine is the green car and the ‘trainee driving instructor’ is the red car. He yelled that no one has right of way when cars are parked and I should reverse all the way back as he had priority. I wasn’t wrong, was I? Arrow are just to show direction.

Wibu not to reverse
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bluerunningshoes · 31/07/2018 20:05

yanbu (unless he was already nearly through)
cars parked on his side, so you have right of way.

snackarella · 31/07/2018 20:05

It's your right of way as his side is blocked surely ?

Justkeeprollingalong · 31/07/2018 20:06

You have priority; the blockage (parked cars) is on his side of the road so he has to wait for a gap.

SnowyAlps · 31/07/2018 20:06

Were you expecting him to reverse around a bend?

NaomiNagata · 31/07/2018 20:06

The obstruction is on his side. And you're almost out, so he would absolutely have seen you coming and would have known he couldn't pass you. He should have waited until the highway was clear.

Did you stand your ground? I'd have refused to move!!

tinysquirrel · 31/07/2018 20:06

Surely YANBU. You'd already passed a number of cars so had committed to moving up the road. He should not have pulled out until his way forward was clear. I would not have reversed in a million years in this situation (even if I am wrong! 😳)

LeroyJenkins · 31/07/2018 20:07

his side is blocked, and dont you have priority as well as you are further through?

Shitonthebloodything · 31/07/2018 20:07

You were right as long as he'd just passed a gap but if it was a worried looking learner I might have taken pity

TorviBrightspear · 31/07/2018 20:07

The only time it could possibly his right of way is when he's already pulled out to pass the cars before you reach the parked cars from your side.

DannyDogg · 31/07/2018 20:07

That’s what I thought but he was adamant that he was right and told me he would know as he was a trainee driving instructor

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safeea · 31/07/2018 20:08

I would have expected red car to wait. Looking at your diagram you had already committed. He was wrong but I'm sure he knows that.

NaomiNagata · 31/07/2018 20:08

Unless the parked cars go further back on his side than in your diagram. If they're further back on hi side than yours, then maybe you should reverse. Or pull up onto the pavement completely to allow him to pass?

DannyDogg · 31/07/2018 20:08

No bend just a bad diagram 😂 road is completely straight

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Prestonsflowers · 31/07/2018 20:09

That’s probably why he’s still a trainee

DannyDogg · 31/07/2018 20:09

I had passed nearly all the cars as per the diagram, he had not even passed one

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DannyDogg · 31/07/2018 20:10

I did think about the pavement but thought that was not allowed?

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tinysquirrel · 31/07/2018 20:10

He was in the wrong then. He shouldn't have pulled out as you'd already committed and had right of way. What happened in the end?

bluerunningshoes · 31/07/2018 20:11

never drive on the pavement Shock

ShirleyPhallus · 31/07/2018 20:11

If he’s a trainee driving instructor he’s obviously got a lot to learn still! Grin

NaomiNagata · 31/07/2018 20:12

Oh good! Then my original comment stands. He pulled out when the road was not clear, it's not like you'd both been driving from either end of the blockage and met in the middle.... He just hasn't looked ahead and refused to wait. Idiot.

Did you clock the driving school on his car? Email them!!

NaomiNagata · 31/07/2018 20:14

@bluerunningshoes

No one suggested driving on the pavement. But if the parked cars stretched in both directions for a long distance, and these 2 cars had met in the middle then, if it were me, id have pulled up onto the pavement fully, let him squeeze through and then pulled back on the road. When you're stuck in a road full of parked cars that's sometimes the best option... legal or not! But this guy wasn't coming from the other end of a stretch of parked cars... He was the the start but didn't look ahead.

dementedpixie · 31/07/2018 20:23

However, if an oncoming vehicle has already committed to the overtaking procedure whilst you are approaching, you must give way.It’s essential during a driving test that you look well ahead whilst before and whilst passing parked cars for this type of situation and be prepared to give way even if it’s your right of way.

www.drivingtesttips.biz/passing-parked-cars.html

Sirzy · 31/07/2018 20:26

He is right in the sense of when one lane is blocked neither has right of way, but as you where already well committed and that was clear he should have waited. Same would have applied if cars where on “your side” though

DannyDogg · 31/07/2018 20:27

Thanks demented pixie, that’s interesting to read, I was way past most of the cars before he pulled out in this instance, I guess that might be the right if way he was referring to though?

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SchadenfreudePersonified · 31/07/2018 20:27

Wot?

No chainsaws?

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