Hello, I’ve never posted on Mumsnet before but am just so furious at my husband. He keeps making comments like ‘you go and work full time then’ whenever I ask him to help me with things. This morning when I suggested he volunteer at the wknd to help with one of the kid’s sports clubs (they were asking for help with a tidy up) he looked at me shrugged, looked around and said ‘I work full time to pay for all this?’ I was furious. I worked SO hard for years to help pay for our home, I was made redundant and the money helped pay for our home, I work part time and do everything to look after our two kids and home but earn a fraction of what he does, I’m so fed up of him suggesting that the only thing that has value or matters is the money he makes by working full time - which I also did for my entire career until I was forced out when our second child was born. I am so angry I can barely look at him and he says he has nothing to apologise for. I’ve tried to say why i think is attitude is upsetting but he just tells me - right then let’s swop, you work and i’ll take care of the kids - completely ignoring the fact I actually already do both!