DP and I agree MIL can be quite rude, but disagreed over the implications of some recent interactions. We rented a new place a few months ago, and MIL came to stay for the first time. She was in a bad mood and made a lot of negative comments. Then, looking at our new fridge freezer, she said 'oh, that would be great for me! You'd need to get a van if you were going to swap it with ours'. She repeated this several times, that we'd need a van to swap it, and that it'd be good for her.
I understood this to be her hinting she wanted us to consider swapping it with hers. Would you think she meant that?
DP was quite short with her when she said it, and just said 'mum, I don't know what you mean'. But I think she was hinting we should give her our new fridge. Take into account that we are tight on cash, and that MIL is about to come into a small inheritance, and I think this is really rude. Or am I overreacting?