Should they have just apologised??

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Hello i did start a thread but it dissapeared...
To sum up as the last one was long
My ex and father to my son (19mo) remarried when he was a few months old.
His wife always seemed pleasant enough and despite the circumstances I have tried hard to maintain a co operative parent relationship.
The last time DS stayed at theirs i ask how he is in the morning and get sent some pictures and a message (on fb messenger) stating ex was still asleep DS is fine.
However 2 of the pictures are of DS in the sink with no clothes on or bubbles or toys to cover anything and preserve his modesty
So i reply saying he looks like he has had a great time although I have said to ex I dont want naked pictures of my children being taken (i see no need?!) And i especially dont want them sent over the internet or shared anywhere else.
His wife replies saying 'well lets just accept that everyone is different eh'
I was furious at the assumption her opnion was equal to mine never mind more important especially re something like this
Its all spiralled now with ex blocking me after i demanded they deleted the photos
AIBU?

Why shouldn't he get married!?

OP could have been s one night stand, they could have broken up before they knew about the pregnancy (so his marriage was over a year after their break up). Granted, he could also have been an ass and cheated on OP.... But you don't know!! So how can you make a comment like that?

My friend married someone when her kid was 6 months old. He wasn't the kids dad... is she pillock?

OP has an ex who is an active parent while also getting on with life.... without knowing the rest you can't fall him names.

The number of completely stupid blanket statements made on mumsnet is astounding.
No always wins.
You can marry with a child a few months old without being called names.

Stupid rules.