To wonder if many of you have ver known more than one man

[IgamOgamJones]

as above...
Some replies I read here are so disgustingly anti-woman I fucking despair of womankind and society as a whole.

OK
If a woman posts on here that she is in a shitty situation, the usual responses go along the lines of...
it's your fault
I don't see a problem
YABU even though you are being abused
YABU even though your DH is being a dick
YABU to believe you should be treated with respect
YABU to believe you would get support here

That is some kind of bullshit. MN has some serious issues but time and time again I have seen threads where women receive pure validation and support and reassurance that abuse is not normal and that she can leave. I've never even once seen a woman discuss abuse and be told she has to accept it.

I haven't seen that at all. It's usually all 'LTB'.

Honestly I see it as the total opposite.

I still don't get your 'explanation'

For example
'I've been seeing a man but the one time I have time off he says you have to catch the bloody bus for 3 hours blah blah blah" responses = you should've got 4 buses, aww poor man having to drive his car 20 mins, aww. You're not a good girlfriend you should've got the bus then sucked his cock then made dinner then got some more buses home otherwise it's not equal" FFS women, think! So...have you only ever known your DHs [who are wonderful] and never experienced all those bloody pricks also called men??

OP, you're full of shit.

Almost everyone here almost always sides with the women when a man is on the other end of things.

LTB, does he have any good points etc comes to mind.

I am going to guess you are paraphrasing.

Rather than linking the actual thread.

OP are you a man, or hallucinating? This is the very opposite of what I often see on MN, to the extent some men are not even allowed to have female friends or contact with female colleagues.

I am not getting this at all.

Did you just make that up OP or is this a TAAveryspecificT?

I would guess that the OP recently posted in AIBU and didn’t like the answers given.
Because nobody agreed with her post and she was given a resounding Yes, YABU.
She’s not happy

I am SO confused by all the OP's posts

No idea what you are talking about OP. What you describe is not MN. I suspect you are well aware of that though.

I reckon this is a mumsnetter's bitter husband 😂

More importantly: what's the deal with only knowing one man bit of your post?

You what?

MN is usually the exact opposite of what you describe.

Example OP?

Actually I did read that thread and while OP is both paraphrasing and hugely exaggerating, that was sort of the gist (though not from me! I was on OP's side).

BUT - I do think that is quite rare compared to the vast majority of very supportive threads. And I also think that the behaviour described in that thread wasn't abusive - it was about an inconsiderate bloke, not an abusive one.

Have you posted this on the wrong website op? Threads like that never happen. Any chance you could link, or at least give us the name of the thread?

Eh?

I know the thread OP is on about. OP didn't drive (I think) and was annoyed her man asked her to come to him as he drove to meet her 99% of the time. If I have the right thread.

I've been reading threads on AIBU about prostitution, abusive partners, women asking for advice and reassurance and in response I have seen very little support or empathy. I find it hideous and disappointing that mumsnet members are not supportive of one another.

Actually I did read that thread and while OP is both paraphrasing and hugely exaggerating, that was sort of the gist (though not from me! I was on OP's side)

I read the thread too and to be fair the OP’s original post, which many people replied to, had little resemblance to the further info she gave in later posts.