So I’ve just had an argument with DH as we are in the middle of a miscarriage and MIL is causing a whole load of fuss over how she feels.
When DH told her what was happening she literally made him spell it out dispute it being obviously horrible for both of us and then even though I’d said I wasn’t ready to talk and wanted to go home ASAP she said she needed to talk and she needed hugs from us to calm her down.
She now phones DH and tells him she needs to see him after he finishes work on Monday as she needs to spend time with him and needs to make sure he is ok.
I pointed out that I’ll have been at home looking after our other kids all day by that point and will probably still be in a bad state myself and that I’d appreciate him coming straight home from work. He thinks I’m being unreasonable and I think he is a pushover for his DM and she is a selfish bag.
Am I being unreasonable? I recognise my emotional state isn’t great and my judgement is shot.