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Aibu to tell him to go

22 replies

Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 07:44

So I've had a night with the oh and he had been excluding me in all conversation with his family they left and he put ear phones in !! So he doesn't bother me I told him I would like to talk and he told me to fuck off !! He has sat talking and singing loudly all night it's 7.41 and still he sings horribly aibu to turn wifi off or at least hit him with a pillow ? Ķ

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wellBeehivedWoman · 14/07/2018 07:45

Is he a child? Sounds tedious, ditch him.

PurpleDaisies · 14/07/2018 07:47

Does he have any good points?

Slanetylor · 14/07/2018 07:48

What? What issues is this man dealing with? And really do you want to be arsed dealing with them/ him?

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Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 07:49

Well he has 5 children asleep 2 dss in the 5 who I love as my own . He just came called me a loser may be i am being with him

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Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 07:53

No issues he has an easy life I do all child care so he can work we have a child who has a unknown genetic disorder adhd and autism but I deal with all this and don't cause a problem he works full time x

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Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 07:54

10 year together is a waste?

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AlphaBravo · 14/07/2018 07:56

Wait, what?

GabriellaMontez · 14/07/2018 07:57

A lifetime with him would be a real waste.

Cismyass · 14/07/2018 07:58

Wait, what? Are you off Frozen AlphaBravo?

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Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 08:03

I'm thinking that can't believe is taken this long he's still singing loudly without a care in the world .

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Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 08:05

Wtf is frozen alpha bravo #cismyass is it fairy tail land when every one lives happily ever after or you just being a cunt ?

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Bluntness100 · 14/07/2018 08:06

What is he, 12? He told you to fuck off, that you were a loser, doesn't want to communicate with you and is sitting loudly singing, lets face it, to annoy you. And you only want to hit him with a pillow or turn the Wi-fi off?

NynaeveSedai · 14/07/2018 08:08

You look after his kids so he can work
You're not married
You look after your shared kid with SEN and presumably don't work
And he's spent ALL night singing and disturbing you?
Yes, any more time with him would be a waste.

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Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 08:10

To be honest I want to hit him with alot more than a pillow I want to hit him hard with my actual fist but I won't coz he isn't worth it

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Doingreat · 14/07/2018 08:11

He's been singing ALL NIGHT? what's he on?
He has no respect for you. Anyone who deliberately and maliciously disturbs my sleep would be gone. I think you need to tell him to leave at least temporarily so you can think about whether you want to continue in this relationship.

nibblingandbiting · 14/07/2018 08:12

I would tell him to fuck off and live somewhere else. Disrespectful little scroate

Shortstuff08 · 14/07/2018 08:13

Why are you staying with him?

mrsshelby44 · 14/07/2018 08:16

This make for very sad reading. OP leave him! The only communication he's had with you have been insulting.

How long has it been like this?

Mimmim112 · 14/07/2018 08:17

I don’t understand why you’re still with him?

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Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 08:22

I honestly don't know either I'm so.stupid

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Donthaveaclue12 · 14/07/2018 08:33

He's fell asleep but I'm gona leave n go stay at my sister's no sleep so won't be able to go far x

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Mimmim112 · 14/07/2018 16:46

I hope it works out ok for you x

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