... to ask what age did you prefer having a cup of tea to having sex?

[Blueskywhy]

There are so many posts on the boards relating to couples where one of the partners is no longer interested in having sex.

I’m in my 40s, and it still something hugely important for me.

What age did you lose interest in having sex?

In 20’s?
In 30’s?
In 40’s?
In 50’s?
In 60’s?
Never?

Genuinely curious...as it’s not happened to me (am post menopause)

I'm 60, been single now for 16 years. Good job I like tea

Never thought my life would turn out like this...

I am 36, i still enjoy sex but if it was a choice between a quiet cup of coffee or sex, I’d definitely choose the coffee!

30!

I've got to like it more as I've got into my 40s.

In my 30s after kids, and especially 1 with moderate SN, by the time it was time for me to go to bed, I literally just wanted to sleep, and dh too.

Depends on the man.

With the right man I'm fairly sure I'd still be keen, but the present one (although I'm very fond of him and deffo not looking for another one) and his lack of any emotional connection apart from PIV, puts me off. So, 57...

Since the children came along.

One is 4 years old and the other is 10 months old and after 15 hours of dealing with them each day a cup of tea is always preferable to sex.

I'm 27 and 4 years single and I'm rapidly losing interest in sex. Not a huge tea fan but a good coffee and we're talking.

I think the longer I've gone without it the less I care. I'm sure if I met the right man I'd enjoy it again but I don't want a relationship at the moment.

Imo it has a lot to do with how tired you are and who your available sex partners are. Since I had kids I'd always choose to spend any spare time sleeping rather than having sex. And while DH is a great life partner and father, he isn't sexy. If you offered me ten hours sleep followed by an evening with Chris Hemsworth I'm fairly certain I'd rediscover an interest in sex!

I’m not sure i’ve ever liked it.

When i was young the sex was more about someone finding me attractive and wanting me. That was the turn on rather than the sex itself.

Since i had children, put on a couple of stone and became invisible, a mother, i just don’t want it any more.

Even when we do have sex, it’s more a physical release than something to “enjoy”.

23- just before i turned 24- (rather recently!!) really couldn't care less about sex- but give me a cup of tea any time!!! might hgave to do with (hopefully soon to be ex but never really been that fussed)

Is this not something people prefer to keep between themselves and their spouse?

Jog on with your judginess!! It's an anonymous Internet forum what do you think we talk about?! Tea drinking??

Not yet!
I’m mid 50s

Post menopause. Mother Nature stole my libido and my waist at around the same time. Mother Nature's a bitch.

I've got to like it more as I've got into my 40s.

Sex or tea?

I'm just over 50 and been widowed for 6 years, to be honest sex was dwindling before I lost DH.
I'm now in a very new relationship and can't get enough, DP is divorced and had been single longer than me and he's the same.
So although I love tea, my opinion has changed in the last 2 months!

Mid fifties and I'm losing interest. Don't mind a quickie but can't be doing with all the drawn out stuff.

Late 40’s...no sign of a tea preference yet! Thank god.

45,I'm now nearly 54 and still would rather have a cup of tea. Much nicer and less hassle.

Always preferred tea.
Maybe if Daniel Craig appeared in a sports car........ *wanders off dribbling

I love tea,love "pleasing myself"been solo parent for9years&just enjoying being on my own,having lots of tea&vibrator sex more than sharing my home with another man again..i was35 when i realised much im happier this way.

I'm nearly 60 and enjoy uninhibited adventurous sex with my 2nd husband.
Then I enjoy a cuppa.

I’m 43 and I love sex. My fiancé and I have sex several times a week, it’s an important part of our relationship.

I'm 35 and love a cup of tea, but not as much as sex.

I'm 24 and my husband sex drive is zero