I am totally at my wits end, My 17 year old told me last week she is pregnant!! Ok, not ideal, but nothing can be done about it now. I just dont know what to do or say to her to make her get a grip. She sleeps all day, awake all night, keeps cancelling her shifts at work because shes tired (ffs!), her bf has no intention on getting a job and his mum doesnt want him to quit college anyway, I just dont know what to do any more. I have tried the nice nice approach, I have tried the short sharp shock approach, nothing is getting through to her to make her realise she is going to be a mum and she needs to grow up. I come home from work and the dishes are in the sink, no house work what so ever is done, I dont expect her to do the house top to bottom, just to clean up after herself. There is no money for prams, cot bottles.....nothing. It seems like she doesnt care and that somehow it will just magically drop in her lap. When i try talking to her she storms off in a paddy and threatens to move in with bf and family. I dont want to push her away, i want to support her but she is making it bloody hard!!