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AIBU?

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My Sons *friend* is harassing him.Police warned him off but we are still frightened.

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whatisforteamum · 05/07/2018 07:34

My son had a relationship with a guy.It was toxic with the guy buying presents etc and checking on my son's whereabouts and when he could speak to him or see him
.Last year he turned up at our house and generally aft e oddly.Our son took police advise however was reluctant to confront the guy.
Wednesday he went back to police.They told our son to text guy and block him.He did then the guy rang back.The police.took the phone and sternly told him to keep away.
The guy text us all said he was coming to our town.
He turned up at our house....he is a big.man and so police said no to confront him.
The police spoke to him.My husband agreed he didn't want any harm to him so to go home.He goes outside shouting and swearing shouting abuse.The biggest cop pounced on him and cuffed him.
Threatened arrest then dropped him at the train station.
Our son works in a public place..His work is aware and they have security.
I am shaken as is son and husband.AIBU to be scared still of repercussions.

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QOD · 05/07/2018 07:38

What happened to make your son text him Wednesday? I take it the harassment has been ongoing?

whatisforteamum · 05/07/2018 08:51

Yes several months.Price is on Saturday and this guy was coercing my son to go with him.

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whatisforteamum · 05/07/2018 09:33

I just don't know the law regarding mentally unstable persons who don't abide by the police warnings.

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Maelstrop · 05/07/2018 09:43

Block him on everything and keep on at the police. You can get a non-molestation order which can come with a power of arrest. Keep safe!

whatisforteamum · 05/07/2018 15:30

Thanks the police threatened to arrest him and cuffed him.I hope he doesn't retailiate.I don't know the laws of procedures regarding stalking or harrasment.

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