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Is it ok for cleaner to bring someone else to my house?

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Catbell82 · 04/07/2018 18:54

The woman who cleans my house has said she will be bringing someone else with her next time she comes round. I didnt quite understand who this person is - she said something about them being on study leave so I’m thinking maybe a relative from her home country?

I feel a bit weird about the idea of a complete stranger that I’ve never met being in my house when I’m not there. I trust the cleaner (she has a key). Is this an ok thing to do?

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Singlenotsingle · 04/07/2018 18:56

Up to you. Personally I wouldn't want a complete stranger coming into my house. You need to know a bit about this unknown person!

onalongsabbatical · 04/07/2018 18:57

She should have asked you, not told you. If you're not happy with it she doesn't have your permission. But I imagine if she'd asked you might well have been more likely to be ok with it.

Pengggwn · 04/07/2018 18:59

If I trusted her this wouldn't bother me as a one off.

icelollycraving · 04/07/2018 19:02

Is this person expecting to be paid?

Catbell82 · 04/07/2018 19:07

No she didn’t say anything about extra payment. I’m not even sure if this person will be helping her. She just said she will be ‘bringing another lady’

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Metoodear · 04/07/2018 19:08

Ha not the only one having cleaner issues then

user1andonly · 04/07/2018 19:09

If this other person is an adult and not actually helping her to clean, then I wouldn't be thrilled about it tbh.

I'd want to know more about why she feels the need to bring them - can't they just hang around at her house?

Catbell82 · 04/07/2018 19:11

Maybe it’s no different to having builders round? I suppose you wouldn’t meet all of the workers & they will most likely be there when you’re not? I’ve never had builders in so I’m just guessing!

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Tomatoesrock · 04/07/2018 23:40

Could it be her DC as its summer holidays, she was not very clear.

If you know and trust her so far, I would ask a few questions on who it is, then make a decision when you have more information.

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