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Dispute with Neighbour

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Pinkpeanut27 · 24/06/2018 16:15

Our next door neighbour has a large hedge which he has planted on the property line . Every year he trims it , so far that’s been fine as it’s not bothered us much , he annoyingly never picks up after him but there you go.
Today I asked him if he could cut it right back to the boundary line as he was trimming it as it was now blocking our side access .Also could be clear up as we have all out tools in storage and he has a leaf hoover
He replied he would cut it back a bit but didn’t want to do too much in case it died and no he was too busy to clear up and even though our wheelie bin was full no he couldn’t dispose of the leaves himself . He said pick it up with your hands and take it to the tip and got very stroppy that he was doing us a favour as most neighbours wouldn’t cut our side .
We both hate gardening and have one small tree and some grass and that’s it as we want low maintenance, so also have limited garden tools .

I’m really annoyed ( possibly over annoyed ) so would it be ok for me to employ a Gardner to cut it back properly, that way it won’t die . DH says I can’t have my own chain saw !

And if I can should I pop a note through to let him know what I’m doing ?

OP posts:
TisNowt · 24/06/2018 18:37

Pinkpeanut27. Do you want to post a picture of the hedge, it can be close up so doesn’t need to be outing 😉. I’m curious to see if it a leylandii or not, if it is I’d give different ‘hedge trimming’ advice to if it’s another type of hedge.

TisNowt · 24/06/2018 18:42

I doubt it would be a box hedge but it might be privet. Privet isn’t too fast growing and is hardy. It’s best to prune it regularly but you can let it go a bit ragged and then give it a hard prune. It’s robust.

Dispute with Neighbour
Pinkpeanut27 · 24/06/2018 18:45

Not leylandii we have that at the back , could be privet. Really I’m done with this now it doesn’t warrant this much attention!

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Bluntness100 · 24/06/2018 19:06

Charming 🤣🤣🤣

TisNowt · 24/06/2018 21:08

To be fair you did warn us you were cranky 😂😂😂😂😂

TisNowt · 24/06/2018 21:09

Ohhh now I’m curious about the leylandii ‘at the back’. I hope that doesn’t meant it’s in the OPs garden 👀👀👀

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