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to think we're reading too much into Melania's jacket?

122 replies

PolkerrisBeach · 22/06/2018 14:24

Wearing a jacket with a message saying "I don't care, do you" on it to a detention camp is a very weird choice.

But all the people saying it's a message about immigrants, or a message about her feelings on her marriage or whatever else is... stretching it a bit.

She's a woman who isn't known for her towering intellect and is stuck in a marriage to the orange one. She never wanted to be first lady. She has been dragged into stuff she has no interest in.

So she's grabbed a coat without pausing to think about it, and been seen wearing it before someone could provide something more appropriate. It;s not a message. It's the actions of someone fairly dim and uneducated, and who doesn't understand the political game.

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Copperbonnet · 22/06/2018 17:20

Paddy I’m not particularly supportive to Melamia Trump other than the fact I think she is probably living a horrible life with an abusive husband.

Yes she chose to marry him. Does that mean she deserves everything she gets?

Violetparis · 22/06/2018 17:23

I think wearing the slogan jacket was deliberate but have no idea who the message was aimed at. Totally inappropriate and stupid given the circumstances.

TooTrueToBeGood · 22/06/2018 17:23

Whatever the message was, I don't think she was saying she doesn't care about the detained immigrant children. That makes no sense whatsoever considering she chose to go and visit them, highlight the horrible situation they're in and undermine her husband's policy.

My best guess is it was a message directly to her husband, and not a nice one. Having had her down as a professional clothes horse who married an ogre purely for his money, she's actually gone up a little in my estimation.

onalongsabbatical · 22/06/2018 17:25

Mind you I don't suppose she does care. After all her and hers are alright Jack, aren't they well, if people who are alright cannot be expected to care, we're sunk, aren't we?
I'm comfortable nowadays (after much distress in my life) but I care deeply.

BesmirchingMotherhood · 22/06/2018 17:40

Paddy

Even if she is a willing accomplice, I still think she’s a willing accomplice who has newly got the shits with him, probably post- Stormy Daniels-gate.

StealthPolarBear · 22/06/2018 17:43

Paddy I completely agree.
Cooper what exactly is she getting? Paddy was wondering why everyone is so supportive of someone who is literally in bed with Donald trump.

Sparklesocks · 22/06/2018 17:46

Regardless of intention she knows, and her staff know, that people will see what she’s wearing. She and her team know what’s going on with the kids in the detention centres - wearing something like that is of course going to be received badly when such a sensitive and upsetting humanitarian crisis is going on. She and her team are in politics, they know better.

StealthPolarBear · 22/06/2018 17:47

Maybe besmirching. But it's too little too late.

StealthPolarBear · 22/06/2018 17:48

I've just grabbed a jumper to go to the shop. No offensive writing or political statements - check.

StealthPolarBear · 22/06/2018 17:53

Anyone got one of these?

to think we're reading too much into Melania's jacket?
ElMarineroBaila · 22/06/2018 18:02

She knew exactly what she was doing. Wouldn't surprise me if it was done deliberately to distract the nation from some other atrocity of their choosing.

Donald trump is an absolutely disgraceful excuse for a human being, I picture them scheming this up whilst sitting on a pile of money saying "hahahaha that'll piss off the left"

Racecardriver · 22/06/2018 18:03

But if she did care about the immigrants surely she would have thought twice before wearing it.

The80sweregreat · 22/06/2018 18:12

It's biazzre. I think she's losing the plot myself but being married to him you can't wonder at it. Either that or she's being set up.

Copperbonnet · 22/06/2018 18:14

Stealth given how he behaves in public do you really think he’s a nice person in private to anyone who disagrees with him. Can’t imagine that’s in any way pleasant.

We don’t know what’s she’s getting in private.

We do know that he’s serially unfaithful.

We know she’s been humiliated by the fact that Trump had an affair with a porn actress when she had a newborn baby.

We can imagine than she’s dealing with an 11yo boy who is no doubt struggling with the sordid revelations about his Father’s behaviour. Probably having to deal with bullying too.

Despite the fact that her husband and his staff will not have wanted her anywhere near that Detention Center she went anyway.

I think that says quite a lot for her.

Pemba · 22/06/2018 18:15

The woman lacks class. It was an (unbelievably) unfortunate fashion choice. Although the significance is not absolutely certain.

I do feel sorry for Americans, they must be absolutely cringing at having to have a pair like this representing them on the world stage. What a comedown after the Obamas.

Theworldisfullofgs · 22/06/2018 18:57

Distraction possibly - medicare and social security bill was going through the Senate.

deloresclaiborne · 22/06/2018 19:06

maybe it was a message to donny
i don't give a fuck what you think , i do care
i know it's a long shot

Member745520 · 22/06/2018 20:25

@dolores
i know it's a long shot

There's others here who are on the same range Smile

petrolpump28 · 22/06/2018 20:27

The Obamas. A class act.

Laiste · 22/06/2018 21:06

On the subject of 'she could leave him easily if she didn't like what was going on' ...

I don't know much about these people (Trumps) but i would guess that man is an awful enemy to have. Can you imagine the sort of clauses and nuptial agreements he has drawn up for this marriage? I would hazard a guess she's 100 times safer staying by his side in plain sight carrying on being his wife.

I think the coat thing is the closest thing to rebelling she can get up to.

karyatide · 22/06/2018 21:27

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BesmirchingMotherhood · 22/06/2018 21:34

I’ve just been reminded of her wearing the pussy bow blouse the week of the grab em by the pussy tapes.

She’s trolling someone. Not sure if it’s us or him.

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