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AIBU to be upset about a facebook group

637 replies

Scienceawarenaturalparent · 13/06/2018 18:54

AIBU staying in a facebook group?

I have had a quick name change!

I'm a member of a large facebook group for natural parents who are also science aware. This group has been a fantastic resource and support network but its all gone wrong. The people running the page all have their own issues and are ganging up on other members for what seems like no reason.

I have thought long and hard about leaving the group because it seems like playground bullying but i just cant seem to do it.

They are great when you need your hand holding and will help you with any problem you could think of. They have a fantastic support network of Nutella addicts and people with difficulties like ADHD and depression I'm not sure there there is a better community.

BUT posting in it can be like stepping onto a nest of vipers. People having mental health problems can be kicked out for no good reason OR supported with people being sent round to check on them or taxis being called and paid for by the group when fleeing a husband. It just depends if you are in with the right crowd or not.

There are many LGBTQ members and there are a lot who are in relationships or who have experimented with eachother and this is causing tension on the group.

I cant seem to leave but i can't seem to stay and I don't even know these people in real life.

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SinceWhenDid · 14/06/2018 13:34

Fuck me caitlynscat you're right about the bulls/cows Shock

niugboo · 14/06/2018 13:34

@aviculara how do I prove people didn’t take screen shots from SANP and give them to someone else? Cos I’m buggered if I can work that out.

WhatTHEJiggins · 14/06/2018 13:40

@niugboo you don't. You're just expected to believe it while admin/mods sit on their cloud smiting all who aren't in their little clique

DiddimusStench · 14/06/2018 13:44

Has Jerry Springer not turned up to sort this out yet. Sounds right up his street.

honeybeetheoneandonly · 14/06/2018 13:55

All your bank accounts have been filled. However, we are banking with TSB so...

LooEezPearCider · 14/06/2018 13:56

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niugboo · 14/06/2018 13:56

@whatTHEjiggins rolling it in.

SinceWhenDid · 14/06/2018 14:00

So which one of you is cod?

SluttyButty · 14/06/2018 14:01

What the jingo did I just read?

Have I taken too much codeine and entered an alternate reality?

I love a good fb drama, particularly ranting flounces. I may have been known to join woo woo bunkum thyroid groups to see how long it takes me to get thrown out.

I eat fake Nutella from Aldi, it's called Nutoka. But I'm not sure that's relevant.

I'd quite like to join this group talked about here so I can amuse myself...

TattyFrench · 14/06/2018 14:07

Brilliant! The money's in! Thank you!!! 💰💰💰💰💰😁

Scienceawarenaturalparent · 14/06/2018 14:07

I'm OK

They tortured me with some inferior Nutella substitute on a plastic spoon stolen from a service station and gave me a satisfyer pro with low battery but I survived...........just

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Wellfuckmeinbothears · 14/06/2018 14:08

@SluttyButty I also eat Aldi Nutella substitute. I fear we will be considered unnatural parents and not be allowed to join the cult. Maybe someone can appeal to the elders (I’m picturing a hairy robed man who sleeps with all cult members because science) to top up our bank accounts so we can afford proper Nutella, as science intended.

MadeleineMaxwell · 14/06/2018 14:08

This is not the Nutella you're looking for...

OkMaybeNot · 14/06/2018 14:09

Oh my shit, OP's back Shock

IDontBowlOnShabbos · 14/06/2018 14:11

I posted a pic of him up thread Wellfuckme. The sex wasn't that bad but this bish at the window put me off.

AIBU to be upset about a facebook group
Wellfuckmeinbothears · 14/06/2018 14:17

Oh barbra...

SluttyButty · 14/06/2018 14:18

Well I think the OP has been fed Nutoka fake stuff 😱

sanptillidie · 14/06/2018 14:22

I think the issue is, not everyone has all the information. Except those with friends in both groups.

So much this. And no-one knows whats going down by PM.

Niugboo If it were me I’d be blocking, lying low, lookin after myself and waiting for it to blow over. Not riling it all up on mumsnet.

honeybeetheoneandonly · 14/06/2018 14:24

Hm, it looks like the OP and sounds like the OP but is anyone else concerned that after such a long absence the overlords have taken over OP's account while the real OP is swimming with the fishes...weight down by nutella jars?!

WhatTHEJiggins · 14/06/2018 14:29

😂😂😂 the OP is back!

Wellfuckmeinbothears · 14/06/2018 14:31

My god do none of you scientific nutters realise how threatening you sound?!

OkMaybeNot · 14/06/2018 14:39

Nutella mafia.

niugboo · 14/06/2018 14:40

@sanptillidie that reads like a threat. I’m sure it wasn’t meant to read like a threat...

niugboo · 14/06/2018 14:41

Problem is I don’t like being lied about. And I know what I did. Ergo I know it’s lies.

OkMaybeNot · 14/06/2018 14:41

These fuckers are intimidating Shock