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After years of weight gain and depression I am back to being me AIBU to ask for help to £1000 all on me!

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BackToBeingMe · 04/06/2018 11:45

After the birth of dd 4 years ago I had a coil fitted to put it mildly it didn't agree with me. I feel I have wasted the last 4 years of my life trying to battle through and manage the side effects. I put on 3 1/2 stone in 6 months which I could not lose no matter how hard I tried, I bleed for months at a time which lead to feel really run down and over time I became quite depressed. I asked repeatedly for it to be told removed give it 6 more months, I saw a different GP 4 months ago who actually listened to me removed it there and then and put me back on the combined pill. 4 months later I have lost all the weight back down to 9st 11 (aiming for 9st 7 so a 4lbs to go), no longer depressed, period lasting 3 days (which is my normal) and just feel back to being me.

I have bearly any clothes that fit and £1000 to spend so please help me spend it! I haven't been me for so long I feel way out of touch with trends and fashions and at a bit of a loss as where to start. I am 5ft 4 size 8-10 with 32F boobs I have picked up a few basics when been doing the weekly shop, 2 pairs of cropped black leggings, 1 pair denim shorts, 1 pair ankle grazers and 5 plain basic t-shirts all Tesco. I had a bra fitting at weekend and brought new knickers so all sorted there, probably don't need anymore sandles as have 4 pairs of decent sandles, 1 pair Sketchers go walk flip flops, 2 pairs of Sketchers go walk for chasing kids round in on days out and boots I will deal with come Srpt/Oct time.

I have ear marked £150 for a Radley cross body bag and matching purse for our up coming holiday so I have £850 left to spend on clothes plus another £100 put away for swim wear. So please kind mumsneters help me look like me again!

I have a hair appointment Friday for cut and colour, eyebrow shaping and eye lash tint which was budgeted for separately.

Thank you to anyone who is willing to help me.

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FlibbertyGiblets · 04/06/2018 11:46

Re post in Style and Beauty and let the Mavens help you, you superstar.

BackToBeingMe · 04/06/2018 11:48

I am 35 years old, with brown hair and green eyes and fair skinned not sure if that makes a difference.

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BackToBeingMe · 04/06/2018 12:00

I'm not sure how to move the thread but will give it a shot and thank you for your kind words.

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Hengine · 04/06/2018 12:02

I think you report your post and ask for it to be moved

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