STBXH has been dick swinging today. He took our DC 5 and nearly 2 to a national trust property this morning and was very proud of DS walking 3.5 MILES
He's a child who isn't physically as able as others his age...even the baby is faster and more able in certain areas than he is...and he came home for me to take over absolutely shattered. He was EXHAUSTED and was beside himself. Had the mother of all meltdowns and started hitting me on my face. My heart died for him all because stupid DH wabted to challenge him physically and make him stronger. DS is hypermobile, has flat feet, a genetic condition and is just not like other children.
And STBXH wants a fucking medal for it. And sent me an email saying he plans on big walks and regular trips to trampoline parks (DS is nearly 6 and cannot do a two footed jump. Can't hop. Can't stand on one leg. Can't do any of these things). I get what he's saying but he's just cockswinging and throwing his weight around and using the DC to do it. He's been disengaged and disinterested and is only now lovebombig the DC with toys and time and attention because we are getting a divorce.