Backstory...
Invited family member to come on day trip with us and they said no.
While we were in car leaving, around lunch time, they called asking to meet with us and come on day trip to see us and to drop something off, we said we were leaving and going home because I had a essay to do and was in a lot of pain (I have alot of health issues)
Roll on one hour later... Family member is at our house with no end insight. I'm trying to do my essay while recovering on sofa but they keep asking me questions about it. We are in silence in an obvious please leave way! There are lots of seats but they chose to sit on the sofa I am lying on with all my work spread out on.
Part of me thinks I am in pain and stressed about getting essay done in time and should be hospitable. The other half thinks I invited them out and they said no, they knew I was going home as in pain and doing work and came round uninvited and should have dropped the thing off and left? Or dropped it off another day? Or kept it til we next saw them!
Also alongside this uninvited visit i am getting alot of un requested advice on how to raise our child...
This is the fourth uninvited visit this month and we see the family member at least once a week... Twice already this week so it isn't that they are left out of our lives!
Please be kind if I am in the wrong!!