Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To be pissed of with being called a lesbian when im not one.

78 replies

Mummyduck10 · 31/05/2018 10:57

I see my best friend of 10 years very regularly about 3 times a week we have always been very close we also talk on the phone almost every day my dh and her partner are also good friends as are our children.

Any day that I plan to see my friend my dh always comes out with a ridiculous comment like "Are you going to see your lesbian lover?" Or "What are you two sissor sisters going today? Going to sissor each other?"

I know he's joking but I dont really find it funny and I'm starting to think he is jealous of our friendship although I'm not really sure why as me and dh usually get on well.

I've nothing against any lgb person but I didn't just go through a year of stress to plan my wedding to a man to be called a lesbian by my own husband whether he's joking or not its getting old now but actually wasn't that funny to begin with. He will make a joke at every opportunity he gets whether we see lesbians on the street or on the telly you can bet he will come out with some dig.

Aibu to tell him to fuck off and stop being so jealous and childish?

OP posts:
TheBogWitchIsBack · 31/05/2018 19:16

Hilarious the first time perhaps.
I'd imagine it would be nothing short of tedious after the 10th time you hear it.

ALongHardWinter · 31/05/2018 19:41

Plain and simple jealousy.

Motoko · 31/05/2018 20:30

"Amusing" the first time, possibly, but hardly "hilarious", especially when it's said every single time OP meets her friend.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page