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to be so pissed at my husband for being selfish about career?

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DrowningEveryDay · 28/05/2018 00:20

We have been preparing for a big move, which will require me to sacrifice career-wise, in order for us to do it. He was the one who was pushing it, I also want it, so everything I have been doing for the past few months is directed towards it.

Now he is changing his mind and does not want to push through because of health concerns. But he's had those health issues before we even planned this!

I understand that he's worried because the country where we plan to go to does not have a good healthcare system, but my point is that he should have thought about this before I made all these arrangements to go?

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DrowningEveryDay · 28/05/2018 00:22

Career-wise, we have a brighter future where we are going. But he has a good career where we are, and after reskilling, I have an offer to work (that starts next year) where we are. He even asked me to decline the offer several weeks ago because of our plan! I didn't do it though and I am so glad I did not!

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