To want sex!

[imeanreally2]

It's been a whole month since we had sex. And that was about a month after the last time we'd done it too. We are averaging about once a month- 6 weeks at the moment

He doesn't see an issue, he says he's tired, not in the mood etc. He spends his free time playing xbox when he's at home. When I ask he tells me to use my toy he gets home from work about an hour before me so I'm convinced he watches porn and masturbates in this time.

I'm fed up. I'm not ridiculously horny or something but I do like the closeness sex brings. We only moved in together last year and sex became rarer after that. Is that normal? Is this what a long term cohabitation relationship is like?

A womens world

Hardly

I'm female, 32 and for years had an incredibly high sex drive. In the last year I have completely lost it. I am not fussed on sex and can go without it easily. Partner doesn't push me but does try it on sometimes. He might say "its been 8 weeks" and i am shocked as to me it seems like we have just had sex recently. I dont watch porn :/ I think we go through phases and cycles of high and low sex drives. Only at certain times to do they match your partners and when that happens it's great, otherwise the rest of the time only one party is satisfied.