My DH remains to be convinced
Has he seen the 'in her shoes' posts?
Someone shared their story on twitter yesterday, it was harrowing.
Expecting twins and at 20 weeks her waters broke.
Went for ultrasound and she was admitted and told the pregnancy would terminate soon.
She had a little girl at home.
She spent 6 days in hospital having a daily scan but as the babies still had a heart beat she couldn't be given anything to speed things up.
She was at serious risk of infection so was put on antibiotics. After 6 days her little girl made an appearance and was obviously still born.
But the placenta did not pass, if it didn't pass the mother would become ill, very ill, but as her life was not in imminent danger and there was still a heart beat in the baby they couldn't do anything. The stopped the antibiotics so they could see symptoms of septicemia.
After another 6 days of nothing passing she developed septicemia.
At that point the doctors could give her something to induce a birth although they would not try any medical intervention if the baby was born alive.
She was rushed to ICU. She had held her little girl and said goodbye, she didn't have the chance to do that with her son.
In most other countries it would be a tragic event but would take hours and the parents could grieve and hold their stillborn children.
The parents would be home with their existing daughter.
Mum's health would have been a priority.