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Ethics regarding Instamums and huns

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BurberryIsSo2000 · 24/05/2018 17:14

Homeisthecalm here, I think it's suitable to start a new ethics thread.

Since clearly, the one from yesterday isn't really about ethics but Clemmie.

Thanks all,

Keep it as nice or as stingy as you like Grin

I'll start off by saying things should be clearly marked 'ad' or 'gifted'

Although the term gifted gives me the rage

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Boredandtired · 04/06/2018 23:53

@wearelocal Grin agreed!

LaminLodge · 05/06/2018 00:28

@timetogetanewfence ooh you're an author?! I'm hoping to be, just got to finish the thing first, lol. How do you get more eyes on your work on twitter & insta, do you posts links to your books or screenshot paragraphs as "a teaser"? Which platform gives you more bang for your buck? I need all the tips Grin

SpongeBobGrannyPants · 05/06/2018 07:58

It would be hard on your own to drum up interest if you don't have a lot of followers. What you need is high profile accounts mentioning your book @LaminLodge. Send copies to loads of bloggers/celebs etc and hope that they like it enough to mention it. Or pay people to read and review it?! But you'd be crossing to the dark side with these tactics of course!

LaminLodge · 05/06/2018 08:25

Hee hee I like your style @SpongeBobGrannyPants “Crossing to the dark side” Grin

stilldazed · 05/06/2018 09:41

meanwhile the meldrums have been very quiet and so far nothing from the latest Neilson resort holiday.

I wonder if they have taken the hint, that this is a step too far and taking their eldest child out of school for the 3rd time in 2 months to try and sell holidays is just unpleasant and makes uncomfortable viewing.

If they were not the middle class family that they are I'm sure school/authorities would take sterner approach.

Wildlingofthewest · 05/06/2018 09:57

The Meldrum’s have both done Instagram stories from their current holiday....

stilldazed · 05/06/2018 10:10

so no shame then...

kirinm · 05/06/2018 10:16

I was pretty astounded by the number of people managing half term holidays. Lots of justifying by saying they got accommodation 'free' for reviewing etc. It's just another sign of how unrealistic instagram is. Very few normal working people can afford half term, Easter and summer holidays. Nor can most people call up a car company and ask for a freebie in return for some positive feedback.

stilldazed · 05/06/2018 10:26

The point is they they are disrupting a child that is unhappy at school and obviously already in difficulty, taking here away for 2 weeks, for a free holiday and earning....how much 2 grand???

Is it worth it?

jamoncrumpets · 05/06/2018 10:29

I think we've established that taking kids out of school frequently to go on resort holidays is probably not a great idea, haven't we?

TheLadyhasarrived · 05/06/2018 10:39

I think they’ve been a bit quiet as they seem to have been struck by d&v.

timetogetanewfence · 05/06/2018 12:54

@LaminLodge @SpongeBobGrannyPants there is no one 'method', and there is no 'dark side'. Whilst I was writing my first book, I didn't have many followers, and the book wasn't out yet, but I made sure that my Instagram and my Twitter were a 'brand', and not just a random collection of pictures. Because when people see a cohesive feed, they start understanding what you do, if that makes sense? I'm not saying everyone should do that with their Insta or Twitter, because everyone has a different viewpoint, but for me, wanting people to notice what I "do", that's how it worked for me. You also have to insert yourself into conversations with other writers and authors, and just ask questions and be involved. It's a long, lonely road sometimes as a writer/author, so it's nice when you get followers that support you and are interested, etc.

I used to post little 'teasers' from my pages, and I also wrote bits and pieces of my process on my blog, so linking to that stuff helps.

The whole 'dark side' argument is such b*llocks, in my opinion. If you want people to read your book, especially if you self-publish (which is still legitimate, and I have friends who make good money self-publishing), you have to send some copies out. It's just par for the course of a lot of businesses. You send out product and hope for honest reviews, or at least some quick PR. There's no shame in that. Like I said, everyone uses social media platforms differently, and that's okay.

Good luck finishing the book! You should be proud of yourself- it's a hard process! x

SpongeBobGrannyPants · 05/06/2018 13:01

Chill. 'The dark side' was a tongue in cheek reference because it was referring PR tactics similar to those which have been slagged off on this thread. 🤓

Wearelocal · 05/06/2018 13:15

It must be such a ball ache being an author now. I remember reading that Anne Tyler had only ever given 2 interviews, no book tours, certainly no SM. How nice just to write a good book and publish it.

mrtumblesmum · 05/06/2018 13:51

Giovanna fletcher and her husband Tom discussing their mental health issues in the news today Hmm.

Wearelocal · 05/06/2018 14:00

Isn't that a good thing MrTumblesmum? They're not running a mental health day spa or trying to cash in on their mental health issues?

LaminLodge · 05/06/2018 14:23

Thank you for helping a sister out @timetogetanewfence 🙏🏾👌🏾🖕🏿
Great advice. Kinda what I’m doing a bit already so good to know I’m doing the right thing. I have 2573 twitter followers which I know isn’t a lot but it’s a start, right?!!! Build the brand and they will come, eh?!! I might not need the dark side after all Sponge Bob Wink

@Wearelocal Who is Anne Tyler please?

LaminLodge · 05/06/2018 14:35

Oh my dayz I accidentally gave you the finger @timetogetanewfence !!!!! LOL. I swear I meant to press 💪🏿 instead but the buttons are right next to eachother. What can I say, clumsy fat fingers, I guess better that way than having a fat arse Grin

Wearelocal · 05/06/2018 14:37

Who is Anne Tyler 😮.

Wearelocal · 05/06/2018 14:39

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_Tyler

LaminLodge · 05/06/2018 16:41

@Wearelocal 😳😳🤷🏽‍♀️ I’ll be off reading some Anne Tyler then!! Appreciate the education truly.
didn’t expect that on a thread about instagrammers 😂😂

YourLookieLikey · 05/06/2018 16:52

Did anyone else see the article in Grazia about mumsnet "bullying" MOD off instagram?

Wearelocal · 05/06/2018 16:52

I'm sorry Laminlodge, uncalled for snark from me. I think she is a significant writer. She may not be your cup of tea at all, but useful to be aware of her, as you're a writer.

YourLookieLikey · 05/06/2018 16:53

I have no idea who Giovanna Fletcher is but I googled her and it looks like a good campaign I think.

ScipioAfricanus · 05/06/2018 16:54

Can someone remind me of the ASA link for making a complaint? Really there’s no excuses for people not tagging posts after the furore it seems to have caused them all lately.

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